(Closed) need help trimming invite list..small wedding

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

hmm how small are we talking?

If you REALY need to hack people off I’d say no co-workers (unless they’re super close), no extended relatives you only talk to during the holidays and no other time, and just trim the friends back based on who is and isn’t an important influence on your life. You’re office pal you hang out with every week? keep them. Anyone thats just a friend of a friend? skip em.

We’re only having 18 guests and yeah, it’s tough

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@swingrunthrow:your sn makes me think of track : ) so random. Anyways, i agree with the previous poster about trimming co workers. Unless they are your lunch-buddy and you hang out on weekends then dont feel bad about cutting your boss, his second wife, that guy in the cube next to you, the new girl who just started…you get the picture : ) . After that ide say cut your parents invites whom you dont know well. for example: my mom wants to invite some “family friends” but the truth of the matter is that me and my fiance dont even really know them. They get the axe second. AFterf that comes friends or you could let your friends come but limit the invite to one (they cant bring a guest). This is just how im personally doing things because me and FH realize that we are gonna have to cut some people probably : (. Good luck!!

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