Need some help :)

posted 2 months ago in Relationships
Post # 2
Member
1482 posts
Bumble bee

skylinegtr7 :  

You said she is loyal in your OP but she slept around? You can’t sleep around and be loyal. The relationship sounds like a total mess. 

My advice is you move on, if you truly love someone you don’t sleep around.

Post # 3
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10303 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

I assume the sleeping around was after you broke up. How do you get over it? You just do. You need to accept that he make choices she was perfectly allowed to make and her being with others would not affect your relationship if you do get back together.

but really, instead of talking to us talk to her. We don’t know what she wants so can’t help. 

Post # 5
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9335 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

skylinegtr7 :  

“Best time of my life… the reason we broke up is only because we were so negative to eachother all the time and arguing”

You see what you wrote. You argued and were negative to each other all of the time. How is that the best time of your life.

move on even though it hurts. Find someone who lifts you up. 

 

Post # 6
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39 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I’m agreeing with some of the others.

It doesn’t sound like the healthiest of relationships. Even though you’re not together again there is already issues.

It doesn’t sound like there is anything to get over, since she was single at the time. I’d even be inclined to say you shouldn’t be friends right now as there are still left over emotions from the last time you dated and it all sounds a bit blurry.

Be friends when you’re in the right place to be just that. Good luck!!

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