(Closed) Need some input

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

It depends.  Does he usually joke about things like this?  I don’t know why else he would say he has secrets that he can’t tell you- unless maybe he bought you a nice gift or is planning a trip or something…

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I dunno, I can’t figure it out . . . I’d be jumping to the same conclusion as you though ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Oh yeah, my BF jokes like that all the time.  Last weekend I was out of town and when I got home he told me he discovered this new sushi place downtown.   I asked him why he was downtown (we have a tiny downtown, not one you’d go to without a specific thing in mind) he replied “I was doing….STUFF” with a funny look.  That really could only mean one thing.   He also constantly makes references to not spending money on stuff now because he has “priorities” cue funny look.

I’m taking them as what they’re meant to be: subtle (or maybe not so subtle) reassurances that things are, in fact, in motion.  He knows I’m concerned about it so I think it’s sweet that he goes out of his way to make sure I know he’s making progress.

Sounds like your man is doing the same thing.   ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I agree with @lezlers – it sounds promising to me. Just try not to think about it too too much, and practice your surprised face Wink

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Yeah I agree with PP, probably to assure you things are in motion.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

It does sound like he is very much thinking about it quite heavily and he is hinting as well!

Hopefully he gets around to it REAL soon!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yeah I would say he is hinting for sure. I tend to believe that most guys don’t say things about it to “keep you around” unless you’re putting the pressure on. It seems you’re playing it pretty cool so I’d think it is more of a “hey I am thinking about it and working toward the goal”.  Also, I think guys are for some reason scared we might say no, so they drop hints so you can come full circle in your mind that this is what you want to. Boys are silly ๐Ÿ™‚

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