(Closed) Need some opinions on a situation at work= vent

posted 6 years ago in Career
Post # 4
574 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Aww… that sucks.  What a nasty woman!  At least they will watch the tapes and see the customers complaining about her messing up the orders.

I know it’s tough, but you’ve just got to continue to be the bigger person.  I wouldn’t talk about this situation with anyone at work because you don’t want to be in any kind of badmouthing situation (I’m not saying you are now, though!), or a she said type argument.  

Just let the cameras tell the story, and see what happens!  I’m sorry, though.  I’ve been in situations where coworkers didn’t like me over petty, childish things, and most of the time it’s because I didn’t put up with poor treatment, like you are doing.  Good for you!  ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
2494 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I totally understand where you are coming from. I was treated this way by an assistant manager who disliked me for whatever reason and he was always trying to get me in trouble with the manager. You need to be the bigger person! I was (and goddamned it was hard) but in the end he reamed me out for using the bathroom (I had a UTI and the manager knew I might need to take a few extra breaks) 3 times during my 4 hr shift by swearing at me in front of all the customers.

He was fired.

I stayed.

In the end, it is annoying, but you will come across these people in any job you have. Be strong!

Post # 7
2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Oh that sucks.  I have that here, although the managers always sI’d with the bartenders, 

Hello, they are STEALING from you, do you not care?!

I always get told birdie quit fighting with the bartenders. 

SI I’ve stopped careung and letting it all roll off  and you know what? They are starting to notice some if the shananagins that are happening .   


Post # 8
1798 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

This sounds incredibly frustrating! Try to keep your cool. Hopefully when your boss finds out she was lying, she will get what she deserves.

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