- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
I wrote a while back about having some issues with one particular girl at work…. she ended up quitting and I thought all the problems were gone.
Well looks like I was wrong! Another woman I work with stepped up to the plate to take her place 🙁 shes way older than me. Some back story; we always got along pretty well, no probelms etc… I covered a shift for her one time since she said her kids were sick and she didnt have a sitter. Ever since then she has called me at least twice a month on my days off asking me to come in. The last time she did this I told her no I specifically asked for this day off. sorry.
Ever since then shes completely turned her back on me. She doesnt say hello or even acknowledge my existance at all. I can ask her a question and she will stare directly at me and walk off without saying anything. She calls the assistant manager on me EVERY single time we work together because “i never do anything, and shes stuck with ALL the work” *puh-lease*
Anyway last night things just kinda boiled over. She had messed up two transactions in a row and was being argumentative with the customer and everything. She tried to get me to side with her and I just told her what to do to fix it, then went on to ring up the next client. The lady standing behind her customer said “well obviously this woman has no idea what shes doing because she ruined my transaction as well” I just told the woman to come to my side and I would fix it all for her. No big deal…. right?
Well she stormed off and was gone for over 10 mins…. she came back and started checking off an order at her counter, store was empty aside from 2 clients waiting for the bathroom, so I said “hey im gonna take my 10 min break, lemme know if you need anything!” and she just slammed her book on the counter and said “well you can at least wait until im finished with this order instead of running off!”
I was just stunned and stared at her shocked. I just simply replied “There are 2 people in the store, i have medicine i HAVE to take on time, im pretty sure you got this” and walked to the office. Trying to speed up this story; She came into work this morning and told the Head Manager God knows what. I was called into the office once i arrived this afternoon and asked what happened, because a report had been filed on me from her. I told her exactly what happened and how I dunno what made her suddenly decide she didnt like me, maybe cause shes older etc…. Our boss kinda sided with the other woman and said “well I know she has alot going on right now” to which i replied “everyone does, but your not suppose to take your home life out on people at work, thats not my problem” and my boss just said “well sometimes that hard to do, shes in the middle of moving and has kids and stuff etc”
Then said “well ive been told 2 TOTALLY different stories, im gonna watch the entire tapes from last night on Monday and decide who said what, who did what and who didnt. I just told her that was fine since I didnt have anything to hide or lie about.
Bottom line; this whole thing has me stressed out. I have NEVER had this problem anywhere else ive worked. Ive NEVER had to go to a manager and be like I dont get along with so and so etc….. its childish really. I have a feeling my boss is gonna side with her. 🙁