(Closed) Need some support bees (Sorry it will be long)

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
241 posts
Helper bee

I’m sorry you’re feeling so depressed, lonely, and frustrated. 🙁

That said, your father does not sound like a very supportive person – then or now. Perhaps it would be best for you to consider what it is that you want for your life, seperate from what your father seems to want.

If it would be easier to go back home to get a job, which would certainly lessen your stress and financial difficulties, that is what I suggest. You can always apply to come back to America at a later date, when you are more financially sound. With work experience, it might even be easier to transfer to the States than you realize.

You sound like a smart, logical person and I’m sure you will work through things one way or another. Keep your chin up, even on days when it’s hard.

Sometimes, the hardest thing to do in life is to accept that people aren’t going to be the way you want them to. Sometimes you have the grieve the dream of what your inner child expects, and learn to embrace what your adult self has too look forward to in life. Just because you father’s side of the family isn’t welcoming or supportive doesn’t mean that you are alone in life. You have your mother, after all whom it appears you love deeply. It is those kind of people that I choose to spend my time and life with and waste my worry on.

Post # 5
Member
11242 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Let me first say that I definitely get how you felt having to do that school assignment–my parents divorced when I was a baby and my dad wasn’t around. Those kinds of assignments always killed me, and I never knew what to do about them.

Secondly, move back home. Be with your mom, the person who raised and supported you. Get a job. Be happy. <3

Post # 6
Member
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

*hugs* I don’t know what to say beyond my heart goes out to you bee. Maybe you should really assess whether or not you want to stay in this situation any longer. It seems as though you were happier where you were and I think we should always follow our hearts and our happiness. 

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