- 3 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
hey guys so im going anon on here because i dont want my dh reading this and worrying
please read i know its long but i need some advice!
so im from the westcoast and my husband and i are moving back to his hometown on the east coast in a little less then a year and i grew up on the west coast been here my whole life and my family is out here i live with my husband on the west coast right now and am only a small drive to my parents home the closer we get to moving to the east coast the more anxiety i get i dont wanna leave my parents and go across the country i know some of you are thinking i need to grow and and realize im married and need to get over it but its so hard knowing that im going to be so far away from my family and living here i always have the support of my family if i ever need them im in school full time and my husband will be in school for a little while before he starts working so im worried about finances and not having someone to lean on if we need it his families nice but they cant help support us if we run into a rouch patch and ill have no friends there until i make some new ones what if i need to get away and hangout with the girls or get away if we get into a fight theres no on there no family or friends to run to expect his family which im close to but its not the same i know me staying here and him moving there is not a option we married being married in a long distance relationship for the rest of our lives wont work i want to move with him because i do like the east coast im just scared idk what to do i know when i bring it up to him he gets deeply hurt he feels like i dont wanna be with him or that hes not doing good enough to make me feel safe and its not that at all im just going on and on idk what to do help me!