Need to fix my rings and not sure what to do. Help!

posted 3 years ago in Rings
  • poll: What's the best way to fix these rings?
    Change the e-ring to have lower sides : (1 votes)
    8 %
    Change the wedding band to have a higher profile (height) : (12 votes)
    92 %
  • Post # 3
    325 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    I’m pretty sure that’s common. If it’s the same size as your e-ring it wont sit right under your e-ring. I just tried my wedding band on to check and it looks similar. If you get the sodered together I think they can make it to where the rings are sitting more flush together. 


    Do you see how on the side the top of your wedding band sits right under the head of the e-ring? If you made it bigger there would be a larger gap between your ring. Are they the same size? 


    Post # 4
    1662 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I would change the band. That’s where the problem is, not with your e-ring! 

    Post # 5
    2782 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    my original ering was purchased for Shane, and we had a private jeweler friend make our bands.  When I ordered my band, he suggested I order it one quarter size smaller than my ering.


    obviously all rings are different.  My band is simple Is super simple- 2mm comfort band with 10 diamonds evenly spaced (although it has yet to be decided if I will getting a second band…..super long story but I am eagerly awaiting the arrival off my new ering after realizing Shane was a poor decision)….. But I WANT my band to be comfortably snug so I have the option of wearing it alone should I ever want Comings have lost a ring ogreater significance to me ( my grandpa’s wedding band) and it DID fit properly- but it was winter and my hands were cold and wet and the ring slipped off….never to be found.  I don’t want to risk loosing my wedding band.


    personally, I think your band looks great with your ering.  Just think aboallot from all perspectives before you cha be anything!

    Post # 6
    3112 posts
    Sugar bee

    @NewYorkLady:  I think it’s normal to have different heights between your bands.  That’s how mine are.  I would do whatever the jeweler says would work best.

    Post # 7
    3234 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 1997

    I cannot believe that the jeweler who mis-measured and made the wedding ring incorrectly has the nerve to suggest altering your engagement ring to fit the incorrectly made wedding ring! That is very likely to affect the structural integrity of the engagement ring. I’d insist that they make the wedding ring properly and not touch the engagement ring (if they cannot make the wedding ring properly, why would you trust them to work on your engagement ring – especially when there is nothing the matter with it!).

    Post # 8
    570 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 1993

    I agree with echomomm.  

    Post # 9
    2878 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’d have them re-make the w-ring, personally.  It doesn’t look right as-is, and its meant to match your e-ring, not the other way around.  However, who measured it? If the woman who measured it was with the jeweler who made it, I would say that they should remake it for free or at least at a discounted price.

    Post # 10
    1106 posts
    Bumble bee

    Agree with previous posters. They messed it up now they should fix it and make it the right way

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