- 4 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
I need to get this said. I’m so angry/upset/happy/emotional right now.
our wedding day was yesterday, and it was perfect.
apart from something’s that have made me so upset, thAt our day wasn’t “the best day of my life”
iv been planning for 2 years. weve spent a stupid amount of money.
the things that made it different to the normal wedding, was a massive sweetie table, milk n cookies, and fresh flowers in every chair.
the plan was to save money, take the flowers fro, upstairs ceremony room, and bring them down for reception. I had paid the florest extra to do this.
as soon as we walked out as husband and wife, I spotted the most disrespectful children, walking around with the flesh flowersPulling petals off, having them in hair ect. They had taken them off the chairs! I was soo upset, I had to ask someone to take them of the children and save them! (The kids are roughly 9/10/11/12 and 4/5/6 years)
the parents didn’t say anything to them.
so this first over shadowed the toasting ect as I was abit upset and mad!
so we then go for photos ect, and have all the “naughty” children running, screaming, banging glass windows ect, parents saying nothing.
then we have breakfast, we do receiving line. Alls fine, until Adams aunties kicked off because they wasn’t say where they wanted to be, so had to move them!
then tthrough out the meal we had the same children messing about, even though I supplied things to keep them happy. (My two children 3/5 and bridesmaids 11/12 was good as gold!!)
then we moved out for drinks, and shut the door to the room saying its not open till later please don’t enter as there changing it around, me and hubby go and have some more pictures done.
bridesmaids come running out telling me the kids and adults have ate the sweetie table.
groom ran in, they have ate the sweets (that was in the reception room!!) and drank milk/spilt milk/used glasses, knocked over signs, just made a mess! used half of the sweet bags!!!
phubby went mad, told the adults it wasn’t open, the told him that his mum said they could have them!! So he stormed off to his mum, she just went “ohh I don’t know”.
pthis point I cried, I had spent so long making it perfect!
evening comes, they have then ate most of sweets, we cut the cake (we had doughnuts), they all take loads, take bites, then “don’t like them” so waste them!!
Same with buffet, all got there before us, we was last to eat!
at the end if the night I caught mil/sil/grandma in law/hubby’s side of family taking 7 bags of sweets each! This was at 9pm when they left!!!!! Party wasn’t supposed to finish till 1.
then this morning, they’ve all gone golfing/swimming. We have no way home apart from them, so iv spent my morning walking around shops that I can go to any day, waiting for them to finifsh to take us home.
and to add insult to injury, we got £10 off most of thguests. We got £500 ($400) from 90 guests. And a photoframe.
im so angry right now and upset. 🙁