- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
I am starting to become overwhelmed with the whole wedding planning.
Fiance isn’t helping much, and when he does give input, it is usually over a small detail and gets dragged out. Something that should take 5 minutes to discuss gets done in 5 days. We need to order frames and we want to order a few extra. I ask his optinion and 4 days later I still don’t have an answer. I kinda blame myself sometimes asking for his input.
My family doesn’t seem into my wedding. My sister got married within the last year. Everyone was very helpful to her and asked questions. I feel like my wedding is a bother to them. I gave them my shower list and it seemed like an imposition to them. My sister who got married recently has not been helpful at all, and it is upsetting that all the time, energy and money I put into her wedding she can’t be bothered. Also, it is not about the money, but the support I am not receiving.
Final vent, FMIL. She hasn’t gotten a dress yet. I can’t ask her anymore about going otherwise I will go crazy. I ask what color, and I get I don’t know? How hard is it to at least narrow it down to a few colors. This is now fiance’s problem, I have so much to do and I can’t chase after anyone.
Sorry, so long, but I need to vent. I don’t want to become a bridezilla or ruin any relationships but it is starting to bother me. I do realize people have other things going on, but I really am not asking much. Don’t make me regret my wedding, but times like this I wish I would have eloped but I really want to get married in my church.