(Closed) Need to Vent about Friend(?)

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
580 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m sorry that they bailed on you…my feelings would be hurt too. Try not to let it get to you TOO much though, because who knows what the actual reasoning behind it could be. Maybe it’s possible that she just really couldn’t afford to come? For example, I only get paid once a month, and I know that sometimes after mortgage, bills, etc are paid, I will have practically no “fun money” to do things with. I’ll admit to having to cancel on people because I just really didn’t need to spend the money at that moment. 

 

Post # 4
Member
369 posts
Helper bee

I think you might be overreacting a bit. Her not being able to afford going on a trip doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you. Hanging out in your room with the door closed also seems like a polite thing to do when your roommate’s long-distance GF is visiting… You mention that the roommate is a teacher, so I’m guessing he doesn’t have much free time and probably wants to spend what free time he has with his girlfriend. It sounds like you are worrying too much about whether you are doing something to cause their behavior, when in reality they’re just going about their business and trying to stay out of BF’s way when you are visiting. Maybe the roommate and your BF are drifting apart as they grow up; that doesn’t mean you can’t still invite them on a day trip to enjoy their company for one day.

Post # 6
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369 posts
Helper bee

I hope the day trip works out for you guys 🙂 

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