(Closed) NEED TO VENT. Big time scheduling conflicts.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
92 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That’s a tough one, however a compromise is a compromise. Therefore, I would attend my friends’ weddings and explain to your future brother-in-law the reasoning behind this. Also, if the date conflict had already been explained to your BIL and he didn’t care enough to make an effort to try to change the date, why should you….

Post # 4
159 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wow that sucks. Well I would say that since you are both committed to other weddings, and you made it clear to them (the brothers) that you were not available, you should honor your commitments. I would say that if it is so important for you to be at the brothers’ weddings they should have picked a different day. They made the decison for you, so it sucks for them.

Post # 5
767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Ugh! That is so annoying, especially since you were proactive and let them know in advance. I guess some people really don’t get that it’s not all about them.

(I guess the flip is that there are limited dates available for weddings, but come on…)

I would be majorly peeved. 

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