(Closed) Need To Vent- Bridemaid telling the Bride our plans!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

That is frustrating. You sound like you are being a great friend. Just try to deal with her until the wedding I guess. Try to limit interactions and spell out everything that can’t be told to the bride. I hate when people are difficult for no reason.

And of course, vent here and not to the bride!

Post # 4
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6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

That’s frustrating! If I were you I wouldn’t reply back to this BM. In fact, really limit your conversation/interaction with her at all if possible. Send individual emails to Bmaids from now on if you have to – or better yet, assign another Bmaid to fill her in after all the plans are made.

In the meanwhile if you want to call the bride and apologize for her spoiling the surprise, that might not be a bad idea. Just say plans are still in the works and that was one thing suggested and there was a slight miscommunication.

Post # 5
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6598 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Wow that really sucks I am sorry you have to deal with this!

Do you think she is jealous she is not the maid of honour? I can’t see why she would be acting this way!

If this were me I would give her a call and tell her that I want her to talk to me if she has any financial concerns and that is the reason why you asked if it was OK before you booked it! I always find that confrontation (even though it sucks and it’s hard to do) helps in these situations you want the Bach weekend to be a good one so I would try and clear the air!

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