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    mrsv2be    September 22, 2010  

    FI and I applied for our first apartment together. We should have it but the application is still being processed...

    I am just so frustrated! It sucks waiting for everything! I can't plan our elopement until I know about the apartment. I also can't get a pet until we have an apartment.

    And did I mention I have yet to find a job? I have interviews all day, everyday.

    On top of it, almost everyone I know is having a hissy fit at me right now. My MOH is mad we don't hang out often- I AM IN DRESS REHEARSALS FOR MY PLAY EVERY NIGHT!

    My director thinks that I am causing problems in the cast because one of the other leads posted a nasty note about me on facebook. (This lead is just mad that I'm engaged and won't date him.)

    My family thinks I am selfish for wanting to move out with FI because I currently live with my grandpa, who is a widower...I've lived with him over a year and I am ready to move on with my life!

    UGH!

    How do you keep it all together?

     
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    jadeblue    July 31, 2010   Western Massachusetts

    Awww. Sounds like a lot right now. Life's like that...everything happens at once, and just when you think it'll never settle down, it does. Sounds like you've got a lot of good stuff (lead in a play, possible new home, loving fiance with wedding on the horizon). Give yourself a time-out from the stress, even if it's just a long bubble bath or an evening walk with your guy. You'll look back on this time in six months and say, Remember when life was so stressful? It's nothing like that now!"

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I'm sorry you are so stressed!  Finding a job right now is so tough.  As for the apartment, I wouldn't worry about qualifying as long as one or both of you has decent credit.  Good luck!

     
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    rachelss    August 22, 2010   Fort Collins, CO

    Feel free to vent here! It's okay to move on with your life. Family is important, but so is being with your husband. FI is counting days until we get a dog, which will be the weekend after the wedding. We've been talking about getting one for a very long time. I have a horse - he requires work and money but not a pet friendly apartment - it took months to find the right one, but it's great. Hang in there.

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    Sometimes everything comes crashing down at once hey? 

    I'm sorry you're stressed.  Hopefully things come together soon :)

     

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