(Closed) Need words of confidence

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1140 posts
Bumble bee

I wouldn’t worry too much a about it. It happened 1 time, they both laughed it off and it was a lifetime a go. I am friends with my guy friends from highschool that I made out with…and Fiance doesnt mind …that was two lifetimes a go. They are my dear friends and thats that…nothing more. If something more was to happen, it would have already.

I think you will be okay.

Post # 4
9627 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

((HUGS))  !!  It’ll be ok!!  I would feel the same way, though, it’s a little weird.  But try to look at it this way:  What if the situation were reversed and it was one of your old flings who was going to be there instead?  How would you want your Fiance to feel?  You’d want him to feel secure in your love, and not threatened by something so far in the past and so meaningless.  Right?

Besides, you may even end up liking her.  If I were you, I’d make a point to speak to her first, say hello, be polite and friendly; and I bet within minutes you’ll be feeling like your confident self again.  Take charge of the situation and tell yourself you have nothing to worry about.  Because you really have nothing to worry about.

And, please give an update after the trip so you can let us know how it went.

Good luck!

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