- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
My very good friend from childhood is scheduled to get married in two months. They have been engaged for just over two years now. We are getting close to the wedding and she has kept everyone in the dark including her parents and my dad (who is officiating the wedding). When I talked to my mom, she had mentioned that her parents have no idea what is going on and think she might not want to get married. However, when I talk to her she seems to be very happy. She is one of my bridesmaids in my wedding so we keep in contact pretty regularly. We have always been able to talk about everything so if something was up I feel like she would tell me. I don’t really know how to go about asking without coming off as rude. She already made a comment about me having everything planned so would hate to come off as being pushy because she is the sweetest person in the world. At the same time, my FI and I need to know logistics so that we can make it to her special day. Flights are already at $350 each way pp and we both need to put in our request for time off. I would ask her parents because I am super close with them, but they already told my parents that they are just as lost as us. What are your thoughts? Do you think this is normal? Should I go ahead and book the flights? I am so lost!