(Closed) Need your advice!

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should we send an email and acknowledge the guests that are not going to be invited this time?
    Yes, send the email, as it is the polite thing to do : (3 votes)
    43 %
    No, the email just brings attention to this and it is better to only explain if asked : (4 votes)
    57 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5399 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    If you haven’t talked to some of these people in over a year, they may not even know when you get married.  So, to me the e-mail just might turn it into more drama that it needs to be.

    Post # 5
    Member
    5399 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    They will know, but if you haven’t talked to them for so long, do you think their feelings will be hurt if they aren’t invited?  It’s kind you are thinking of their feelings, but you can only afford what you can afford and if they ask, you can just explain the situation to them.

    Post # 6
    Member
    152 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    I’d just email and say that while planning the wedding, things have come up where the type of wedding you planned to have and are going to have is different, and that in light of these issues, you are having a smaller more intimate wedding … and hope they understand… 

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