Needing Some Encouragement….

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Are your Bridesmaids bumming you out?!
    YES!!! You don't even know... : (4 votes)
    13 %
    No, I love all mine!! : (12 votes)
    39 %
    No, I don't have any : (4 votes)
    13 %
    No, I only have one : (4 votes)
    13 %
    Yes, I should have had less : (2 votes)
    6 %
    Yes, I shouldn't have had any : (0 votes)
    Yes, I wish I could ask one (or more) to step down : (2 votes)
    6 %
    Yes, I'm regretting my decision : (2 votes)
    6 %
    Other (please explain) : (1 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    195 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    No! I dont have any!! Best decision EVER 😀

    Post # 5
    Member
    195 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @EmilyJoy:  LOL thanks 😀 this is my second time, first time i had 3, and they were great. We’re eloping and although I’m not being attended at the ceremony, i do have my very best friend (who was one of the three) coming down to help me get ready, and she’ll be the only non family member at our massive 8 adult reception 😀 She’s in no way offended, she’s looking forward to some girlie time in a place she’s never been to before 🙂

     

     

     

    i hope your day runs smoothly!

     

     

     

    Post # 7
    Member
    1076 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @EmilyJoy:  I had a friend who didn’t have any. I chose to only have 3 (my two sisters and my FI’s sister) and honestly, I don’t have any expectations for them except to show up.

    I think brides put a lot of pressure on the “duties” of being a bridesmaid and then when they fall through, we get sad/hurt/upset. I would honestly just count them as glorified guests. Just my opinion, though. 🙂

    Post # 9
    Member
    1076 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @EmilyJoy:  It’s so nice of you to dote on them like that! In all honesty, I would back off a bit. They seem really unappreciative and aren’t in the right mindset to be happy for you and your day.

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