- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
So my mum has a HORRIBLE track record for relationships.
There was my father, who my mother married because it was the right thing to do and what God wanted. Whatever. My dad left when I was 2 years old and I only saw him at contact for a few years, he sucked but thats a whole different story.
Then apparently she had a string of one night stand type relationships after but I was too young to remember.
Then comes K. They were together a while all along K manipulated my mother and basically wore her down. K mentally and emotionally abused my sisters and myself for years.
Then came M. They lasted 3 years. In this time M got mum addicteed to smoking and drugs. Mum became violent and abusive towards me (sisters were adults and out of the picture other then to try to protect me) Mum never believed me or my sisters and always put M first. (M has many mental issues including schizophrenia that she never took medication for) eventually after mum lost contact with me and both my sisters they broke up. mum now has a restraining order against M.
Its been 2 years since and mum has sobered up and got herself sorted. and my sisters and I are working at forgiving her.
Mum invited FI and I to a family BBQ to celebrate a family members bday this coming saturday. I accepted as I thought it would be nice and great to give FI a break from studying (big CPA exam on tuesday!) then she said fantastic chris will be there. ‘who’s Chris?’ just a friend she replyed.
I later asked again and she said that she and Chris are dating.
I dont know if I want to or am ready to deal with mums new girlfriend. I want her to be happy, and find love ect but yeah i need to suck it up and meet the new girl 🙁