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    lillybugs    June 26, 2010  

    Ok so were not even engaged yet but we have the wedding date picked which is only 8 months away (June 26, 2010)! We have been talking about getting engaged... there was just some money issues... but he already knows how and when he is going to purpose... (just waiting for the ring) lol. I am 19 he is 21... I feel like 8 months Is so soon... should I go ahead and start planing even though we are not engaged??? Do you think we are too young??? Oh and He has a baby girl on the way... she will be here around Feb. 17 2010, so I will be a step mom befor Im a mother myself... Which im ok with I love my boyfriend and I know I will love his baby girl even though the mother and I dont get along. so what is everyones opinion on the whole situation??? Oh and we have been together for a total of 7 months now... (after 3 months we broke up for 1 month due to long distance, which is when his ex got pregnant) very confusing and stressfull situation at the time...... any opinion would be great but Really would like to know if i would be crazy to start planing befor engaged..

     
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    HoneyBear    March 17, 2012   Texas/ Isla Mujeres

    Ok, there is a whole lot going on here. I think you need to step back and really evaluate your situation. Just by reading you post, it sounds like there is some doubt in the way you word things. 

    You are asking us if you are too young, but it seems like maybe you think you are too young.

    There is no reason to rush into marriage. It is a very serious step in a relationship. Personally, after reading the situation, I wouldn't want to get married to someone when they are about to have a baby with another woman. It's not going to be an ideal situation for anyone involved. 

    I think you need to take your time and really think about what YOU want. Dont rush into anything you aren't ready for.

     
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    wow... just wow I think you need to slow it down a bit. 

     

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