Nerves are setting in!!!

posted 4 years ago in August 2013
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Don’t be nervous once your day is here you won’e even be worrying about those things! Your day will be amazing and perfect!!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

Absolutely, but it’s going to be AMAZING!!!!  Just remember to breathe, and let what happens happen, even if that means happy tears!!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I don’t think I’ll cry, but Im nervous as hell about having all those people in our lives in one place.  That’s why our wedding is just four hours or so.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Firemansgirl:  A few days ago, everything still felt very surreal and I was suprised that I wasn’t feeling stressed at all. But since then, I’ve been having trouble sleeping and my emotions seem to be alllll over the place. The smallest thing can just make me want to cry or hyperventilate.

I’ve been trying to remind myself that my worries, feelings, responses, etc. may be unpredictable at this time, and that I can notice and acknowledge those feelings while not getting overwhelmed by them (if that makes sense). It’s probably pretty common for brides to experience these kinds of stresses before such an important and anticipated event!

I hope your day is all you imagined it would be, and more 🙂

 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Gahh nerves are setting in for me too… one week!!! Eeep!  But I’m trying to ignore it and just focus on the details I still need to get done (which at this point is mostly honeymoon stuff not wedding stuff)

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yesterday I took the cat in to our new vet and since it’s so close, filled out the paperwork in my married name.  Kind of felt like cheating, but I didn’t want any mixups down the road.

First time I’ve written it down, I haven’t practiced my signature or anything.  All quite weird.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@Firemansgirl:  I read somewhere that to try to prevent totally bawling through your vows, you should practice them a few times a day until you get more used to saying them…

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