(Closed) Nervous about extended families meeting for the first time…

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
245 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Luckily, I am not going through this as drastically as you are. My advice is just to not worry and go in tomorrow with a positive attitude. They will be there celebrating you and your Fiance so the topic of conversation can be centered on you guys. Obviously it will be awkward at first, but who know’s it might hit off really well! It’s not like you guys will have huge gatherings like this after your wedding, right? (at least that is how it is with my family). Just try and relax and go in tomorrow with a smile.

Post # 4
40 posts
  • Wedding: December 2013

I am having an intimiate wedding so i’m avoiding this problem, somewhat cause the wedding will just be parents, siblings, and nieces and nephews. However I am worried about my dad and his wife being around my fiance’s family. Fiance’s family are well off financially and well mannered. My dad and his wife dislike anyone with money, assumes they are snobs, and my dad and his wife are very much similiar to rednecks. I am quite embarrassed by them. My dad’s entire family are very redneck. So I can only imagine how much worse it would be if i would have a bigger wedding. My mom and inlaws have met eachother and get along great thankfully. My mom is not like my dad and his wife at all, and either am i. Most people are shocked when they find out who my dad is, cause i am absolutely nothing like him.

My stepmother i am very embarrassed by. She is loud, obnoxious, in your face, rude, and she gets offended over the slightest thing so i am always on edge around her watching what i say. Also the woman does not know how to dress for certain occasions. She wore a jean skirt and sandals to my grandmother’s funeral, and to my cousin’s formal wedding she wore a dress that looked like she could sleep in. I seriously almost asked her if she was going to get dressed for the wedding when i got to my dad’s house cause it looked like one of those house dresses you sleep in. It will be interesting to see what she wears for my wedding. I’m certainly giving her no tips. She can dress like a hillbilly for all i care and be embarrassed in front of my mom and inlaws who i know will dress nicely. I love when my dad’s wife is at more dressed up formal occasions cause you can tell how incredibly uncomfortable and out of place she feels.

Post # 5
12071 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

i’m in the same boat as you.  Our parents haven’t even met yet and i’m terrified for that day…my family tends to have a giant stick up their ass and think they’re better than everyone.  His family tends to be a little more redneck.  I feel like it’s going to be a shit show, but i’ll keep my fingers crossed that it all works out.  I’m sure yours will be fine too!

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