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Nervous fiance

posted 2 years ago in Beehive

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Sugar bee

tessabella76 September 12, 2009 Ohio

With a little over a month to go, my fiance is getting a nervous stomach! Not good! Part of it's the wedding-not the commitment part, just the how are we going to get everything done part. And part of it is our finances. We are in the middle of refinance the mortgage and the rates are fluctuating so he's nervous about that. So I'm stocking up on the Pepto!

Anybody else have a fiance that got nervous or is getting nervous now that it's crunch time? What can I do to help him relax-other than the obvious ;-) ? So far I'm not freaking out and I'm not really stressed so I don't know how to relate.

2 years ago

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Blushing bee

Palm Tree 8/14/10 Chicago Suburbs

My fiance is super sensitive - if he gets emotional/stressed it actually makes him really sick :( I know its crunch time but would going a day without wedding talk be helpful? Maybe take a time out? Or just the opposite, you said you're not stressed - could taking him out for a drink or coffee and asking him what you can do to help him relax and enjoy this whole experience a little more easily benefit the situation?

2 years ago

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Bee Keeper

His Barista September 4, 2010 Spokane, WA

My FI is very quiet and tends to spend more time playing online video games when he is stressed. May I suggest taking a time out and making dinner together? Maybe rent a movie and just have a night to relax w/o worrying about outside stuff.

2 years ago