(Closed) Nervous News. Positive Test

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

*Hugs* It’s okay honey, don’t panic! Your feelings right now are totally normal for unplanned pregnancies. Take some time with your husband to let the news sink in. As much as possible, try to focus on positive rather than negative (since you said you are 100% keeping the baby). You will get through this and be stronger for it. Good luck!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

Planned parenthood has a bogus reputation for only being interested in abortion, but they provide a whole array of services including consulting women in your situation. Sometimes just talking to someone you don’t know can really help, I would call your local center and set up a time to talk to someone.

I’m sorry that you are going through this, and I hope that it works out for the best!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Sending you HUGE hugs. You will be ok, and so will your husband!!  It is TOTALLY normal to feel like this. Just let yourself feel what you need to feel. If you’re sad, angry, scared…don’t try to fight it back.  But also remember that, as scary as it is, you guys will be ok. It’s a huge shock, but you’ll have a while to get past that and figure out what you need to do re: planning for the little one’s arrival.

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Everything is going to be okay!

There is never a GREAT time to become pregnant. Your reaciton and any reaction your partner has is okay. YOu are going to be emotional but you can work through it! Breathe! Your lives are not over. Hopefully some others who have had unplanned surprises can chime in and ease your pain.

Do you have family/friends you can use as support? 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I do not have any words of wisdom to offer, but I wish you the best of luck. Your husband is your partner and as a team you will figure things out together.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

@StealthyBee:  Have you taken a second pregnancy test yet? With a faint line there is a teensy tinsy chance that it’s a false positive, but I wouldn’t count on it.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I got pregnat when I was 16 (had her when I was 17). I completely understand the mixed emotions you are having right now. Talk to your husband. Tell him and take time to digest how the both of you feel before talking with others, the two of you need to find a way to lean on each other. I definately think talking with a councelor would be good for both of you. It does get easier as you get use to the idea!

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

There is never going to be a “right” time to get pregnant. The best thing to do is sit your husband down and explain to him how scared you are…maybe go talk to some one professionaly. Please understand that this baby was not a mistake. I will be praying for you and I hope you guys find joy in your blessing!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

@StealthyBee:  I don’t see much of a second line… perhaps it’s a chemical pregnancy? Go get a blood test to be sure!

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Please don’t be embarrassed.  I’m so sorry this is an inopportune time.  Many hugs to you!

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