Never giving up

posted 2 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m sorry that you are having a bad time, but you have a great attitude about this.  FX for you in the cycles to come.  

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

cheers to that!  and giant hugs all around.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Big hugs sweetie.  You and I are just two peas in a pod today.  You’re not alone…Some days I just want to give up too.  But then I remember if I give up, I’m not only disappointing myself, but my DH too.  His heart is just as broken as mine, and I will do whatever I can to make this dream a reality. 

 

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

*HUGS* We are unexplained and am exactly 1 month from 2 years of TTC as well.  We start IVF stims pretty much exactly 2 years to the day we started TTC.  In this time, there have been countless OOPS babies, lucky first time try babies, people who are pregnant with their second who started at the same time or after… @(#$@#*$ this infertility.  But yes, I do still believe that it will happen one way or another.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Baby boy 12/2015

NowandLater:  Lady, I have not even tried for as long as you have, and my heart breaks for you. There are days that I just cannot see the end to it. It’s hard to get up and ignore those thoughts, but then I have to remind myself that if it’s meant to happen it will happen. Even though, those words really don’t do much to help me those days, deep down inside me, I know it’s true. The hours become an eternity, then I realize life moves on, and I won’t let those thoughts take over my life. Cry, eat, do whatever you need to get that out of your system because the longer it stays there, the most it hurts. Sending hugs <3

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - backyard in the woods

*Big hug* I feel ya. 1.5 years in here and I can’t even try again until I have another surgery that might help. I found out a coworker of mine was pregnant a few days ago and broke down too. Acquiantances sting, but someone I see every day who got married the same month as me, F that. A close friend, especially one who already has 2 kids would hurt even more. That sucks. Here’s another *hug*.

Post # 9
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1959 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

NowandLater:  Giant hugs to you.  I really admire your positivity.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

NowandLater:  you are definitely not alone. Your attitude and determination are admirable. Sometimes, life gives us more than our fair share of struggles, but ultimately you WILL have your baby. A little faith goes a long way. Sending you hugs, positive vibes, and keeping you in my prayers. 

Post # 11
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4939 posts
Honey bee

NowandLater:  I wish I could reach through the internet and give you a big, supportive hug. It took my husband and I four years to get pregnant. It was such a stressful and heartbreaking time. And I remember two of my friends having two children each during the time we were struggling to have just one. It felt so unfair to me, and I was angry at the entire universe. You are definitely not alone, and it WILL happen for you! *big hugs*

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

*hugs* I completely understand. I’m only at a year, but I still feel the same pangs when others announce their pregnancies. I’m so afraid at how long this will go on, yet I’m still hopeful it will happen one day. Sending love and thoughts your way. xoxoxo

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

You are not alone!  I am coming up on almost one year of TTC and nothing…………I try to keep positive but understand that sometime you need to cry it out.  I have had 2 pregnancy announcements on facebook this past weekend it it always feels like a knife to my heart.

Baby dust to everyone!

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