- 3 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
here i am. 27 and i have to tell my mom its time to leave him…. hes got a good heart but the man is a fool. my dad died when i was 17. they married a year later. my mom always said she felt it was too soon and that she wasnt in her right mind. besides that the years when on. he helped her waste the life insurance money. He hasnt fixed the apartment building we have. instead they bought a new car, four wheeler, property in brazil. then the bank took the car and theyve had to sell everything else. i could go on and on. i have tried to give him the benifit of the doubt but my last visit….. well they are on the verdge of bankrupsy. but he barly works 40 hours a week when my mom is full time plus over time… (there are jobs available there, hes just lazy) he literally sits all day on the couch and smokes cigs and pot. all day!!!! he cant even go for a walk but he want to buy a different large property with sheep??? how are you going to be a sheep farmer when you cant even walk to the store…. this really sucks guys… in four years my mom can retire. if they are going bankrupt why isnt he working??? he isnt that nice to her behind closed doors either. they had a fight when i was visiting and i heard that fat man call my mom a bitch and all that. im at my wits end. there is so much more about that man, my mom has recently opened up to me about that disgusts me.
i have to tell my mom to divorce him (even if he does take half the retirement) sell the house to the bank (foreclose). and she needs to move in with me…. i just hope she does it…
anyone else have a situation like this or have to face the house they grew up in (i watched and helped build that house when i was a child) now its going to the bank..
thanks in advance for advice