(Closed) New Bee!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2577 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Firstly- WELCOME!


Secondly, all you can do is play the waiting game a day at a time.

You have a man who loves you, has stated he does want to get married someday…. all you can do is give him some space, and work on making your relationship great and your future together bright!

Post # 4
323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@flutterbee:  Welcome to the site!!!

I completely understand your frustration, my SO and I have had many discussions about this top and he refuses to provide me with a timeline. We went looking for rings ages ago, and we’re going on an All Inclusive vacation soon. We have been together for 4 yrs and he will be 31 in May. I keep getting hints front Future Mother-In-Law that “she’s excited” and “it’ll be soon”, but thats all I have to work with.

Your really heave to keep it together, try your hardest not to continually bring it up and pressure him into buying you the ring and getting engaged for all of the wrong reasons. THis has to be his decision! Guys work on different timelines and he may just want to surprise you. A lot goes through a guys mind, from time, to money etc.

Enjoy your time as g/f, b/f, make the most out of it, because a strong relationship in general will lead to a strong engagement/marriage. Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing, and RANT on here when you need to. 

Trust me….you’re not alone!!! All the best in the waiting process!!

Post # 6
1013 posts
Bumble bee

Welcome to the waiting board!! I hope you arent around long Wink and move to the wedding boards soon!

But in the mean time.  Vent here.  Ask for advice or for us to put things in perspective and we will do our best.   Waiting can be TOUGH some times. I’m getting anxious to start planning if i want a Sept 2013 wedding!!! So i get that. 

Good luck!!!

Post # 8
1152 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@flutterbee:  Welcome to the site! I think you’ll find it’s a great place to vent, get advice and laugh. 

It sounds like you are on the right track. Mr. Bees Plan supposedly works extremely well and it helps us keep our sanity while waiting. I would say to distract yourself, focus on other aspects of your life and let him propose when he’s ready, within reason. It’s difficult but I think his proposal will be even more special that way. 

I’m definitely the planner type too and I have a folder in my email for things I might want to use when we do engaged. That usually helps tide me over! 

Good luck!

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