- 3 years ago
- Wedding: July 2014
First of all, I loveee the weddingbee. I have been lurking for a couple of days and decided to sign up.
Anywhoo, this is my second marriage but his first. We are currently planning a small wedding. He is very happy and I am very exited and worried. I feel like right now we have an open door relationship and we are together because we choose to be. I am scared that this changes
We will pay for everything ourselves so small party. it’s just a few friends so maybe 50ppl. No bridal party and our colors will be red, black and white. I have been debating on what to wear. If it was up to me I would just go to the court house and get married there and dinner with ppl that matter to us dearly.
However, if I do this I think I will be robbing him of the experience of a wedding and he really deserves it. I had a previous wedding at a Catholic church so we have to do secular. We could do a Christian church wedding, but to me that’s not right mainly because my broken promise was to God. I have a very odd belief in God.
I want to wear an ivory or champagne wedding dress or maybe red but it won’t feel the same to him. Productive Opinions?