New bee :) Is it coming soon? Help, I'm getting anxious waiting!

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1241 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@cupcake0250:  Welcome! 

It’s really easy to get impatient when you relize that you want something. I’ve been nothing but impatient since my SO and I went ring shopping. It sounds like your guy has it together, and it IS really early to be discussing such things. Some people do discuss things this early, others don’t. Your best bet, ASK him. Ball in his court or not, you can ask what sort of timeline he’s looking at. Try to keep rational, try not to be emotional, and just tell him that you’d like to know what he’s thinking.

Good luck!

Post # 5
1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

How about waiting for your first anniversary, or sometime close to before or after it, and just ask him what he is thinking in regards to engagement 🙂

I say wait tillthen cause I think it’s possible that he could be waiting until you’ve been together a year to start seriously acting on it (obviously I’m just guessing but I know my BF would never consider proposing after less than one year). If you don’t want to wait till then I’d still definitely think that you can ask him where he stands, communication is always good! 


I hope it goes well! All the best to you ^^

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