New cat attacking me and DH constantly…advice?

posted 4 years ago in Pets
Post # 3
8947 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Well, your main clue is that she’s new. Cats aren’t like dogs in the slighest. Most dogs will settle down in a new home fairly quickly, whereas cats need time. Plus, she’s still a kitten! A lot of what you’re describing sounds like kitten behavior.

Give her more time to adjust. She’ll come around. In the mean time, buy a lemon or an orange and put a little bit of the juice or steep some rind zest in some water. Put it in a spritz bottle and spritz her when she’s being naughty.

Cats don’t tolerate the scent of citrus very well.

Post # 4
1785 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@CandieC88:  That’s a tough one. :/ Our little black kitty used to do that (and also try and climb us) and she would always attack fingers and toes. But then she grew out of it. So… maybe time will fix it? She is still VERY active and probably our most intelligent cat but no longer tries to constantly attack our extremities.

Post # 5
787 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@CandieC88:  never had that probelm with a cat but did with a dog..i would try treats, start giving them to her to see if she likes them the shake a bag and have her run to it kinda thing…after she gets use to hearing the shake then she gets the treats have the treats near you soffa desk, as shes eating them pet her, maybe if your on the sofa put them on your lap so she has to be near you but try to foce it to pet her. do you have other animals? if so i may thing she is trying to be domanate…good luck

Post # 6
379 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I have no advice but me and my husband just got a kitten about a month ago (now he is roughly 4 months old) and I’m trying to get him to not bite us anymore even though he is just playing. Wanted to comment on this to follow.

Good luck with your kitten! They are annoying sometimes but you’ve gotta love them.

Post # 7
6802 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Hyperventilate:  +1

OP she is just in the kitten phase.  I have been around cats all my life, she eventually will grow out of it.  Maybe also get her toy mice to play with or try laser pointer to get her tired out. 

Post # 8
1614 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@CandieC88: We got a 6 month old kitten about a year ago, and he still plays quite rough, so there’s that. But, my momther, who bred cats for about ten years, told us that if regular discipline (clapping, shouting, spraying with a vinegar-water mix) isn’t working, pick the kitten up by the scruff gently and carefully and speak loudly and sternly in the cat’s face. They apparently don’t like getting up-close-and-personal and loud, so.

It sounded a little mean to me, but my FI has started doing it when Beemo is playing too hard, and since then he’s really toned it back.

Post # 9
154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

kittens go through a phase around this age where EVERYTHING has to be stalked down and killed, including your extremities. Give it some months! It’ll probably wear off. Even our kitty – we got her at 4 months and she was extremely timid and shy – went through this for a while. 😀 I wouldn’t worry too much, but oh my god, it can be terrifying lol.

Post # 10
8947 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’d also like to add that my cat is 5 years old. She’s just now going through her kitten phase because she had some very serious health issues for the first three years of her life. She’s only now feeling good enough to do it! It’s just something they have to get out of their systems. She’ll grow up and get bored of making you bleed, I promise. Kittens need to learn how to be hunters. Unfortunately, you’re the prey.

Post # 12
4433 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

She’s probably bored in her kitty world.  I saw an episode on Animal Planet once with a cat/kitten who did this…they set up random areas where she liked to go and made fun things for her to play/jump on that were safe. I’d look into that!

Post # 13
8979 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

When we got our boy kitten around 3-4 months he liked to bite hands all the time.  Not feet or ankles, but he would always be biting your hands unless he happened to be sleeping.  Often times they will just grow out of it. 

We decided to get another kitten (I had wanted 2 to begin with) and it worked wonders because they just chase each other around and chew on each other.  He’s still not a year yet (I think he will be in February or March), but he will still try to bite every once and awhile if he’s in a really playful mood and you try to pet him but it decreased dramatically.

Once they get even older it should decrease as they don’t want to play near as much.

Post # 14
2535 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

My mom’s 7 year old cat still gets aggressive sometimes when she’s bored, we picked up a scratching post (well, we picked up a few different ones) she likes a lot and move it to the center of the room when she gets like that.
She usually just attacks that instead (especially if we toss cat toys at her, then it becomes her fort) but will nab feet if we walk too close, haha

Post # 16
809 posts
Busy bee

+1 to whoever said something about a spray bottle, although I never knew about the citris part!

My 9 year old man cat will attack my hands or ankles every so often.  Most of the time he’s a perfect fluffy cuddly thing but then his inner tiger comes out and he feels like biting me.  He hates the spray bottle though.  Just bringing it out when he gets rough stops him from bad behaviour now.

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