Post # 1
Since I moved to a new country and just started making friends. Should I invite them? Their bfs are friends of my bf but the girls are sort of my friends. They invite me to parties but wouldn’t help when I asked to go dress shopping so I wasn’t alone.
Should I invite them or not?
Post # 3
Is your wedding in your new country or your old country?
It’s really up to you who you invite. If you feel like you want them there and they would make the day more fun, then by all means invite them.
If you don’t really want them there or don’t feel you know them well enough, then you have no obligation to invite them.
Post # 4
It’s in my new country 🙂
I like them but i can’t call someone a friend who won’t even come wedding dress shopping. I know it’s not everyones cup of tea but it was horrible doing it alone. Would have been nice with them there.
I think they are expecting to be invited saying I can’t wait to see you but then won’t help…umm what??
Post # 5
@misswhiteflower: Did they say why they couldn’t go shopping? Also, dress shopping really isn’t everyone’s cup of tea (especially if they aren’t your closest friends or members of your bridal party).
I agree it sucks to have to go alone and it would have been nice if someone stepped up to go with you, but that shouldn’t be a pre-requisite to being a wedding guest.
Moving to a new country and not knowing anyone is hard (I know, I just did it) and I’m sorry you had to go shopping alone.