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New England Ladies! When and where?

posted 1 year ago in Boston
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  • poll: What time of year?
    Spring : (11 votes)
    14 %
    Summer : (32 votes)
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    Fall : (27 votes)
    34 %
    Winter : (10 votes)
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    PinkPinstripes    November 2011   Boston, MA

    Hi all,

    I didn't have an preconceived ideas about where and when I wanted to have my wedding before my FI proposed so my very first decision (after saying yes of course) was where to have it and when...

    We're lucky in the northeast to have 4 distinct seasons and there a million options in New England so I was just wondering how other bees decided on their choices!

    I personally chose the Fall because I love the autumn leaves and hate sweating in the summer (gross but true). I love the idea of a nautical themed beach/Newport wedding but decided on a chic downtown location instead.

    So, please share how did you choose your when and where?

     

     

     
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    r elizabeth    July 24, 2010   Maine

    We are in Maine but getting married in NH (We're pretty close to the state line). We are getting married in the summer. I would've looooved a fall wedding, but was too impatient to wait until the fall since we had already pushed it back from the spring.

     
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    skibobrown    July 31, 2010   CA (wedding in Bar Harbor, ME)

    I LOVE summer in New England, so it was a no-brainer to me.  We're getting married in Maine on the coast, so hopefully it won't be too hot & humid for our guests...

     
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    Moose1209       Nashville, TN

    I had always wanted a fall wedding but my husband's work schedule wouldn't allow for it so we had to pick Feb or March and ended up getting married on March 6th in Mass.. so technically still winter.  I was terrified it would storm because my parents got 6 inches of snow the weekend before the wedding.   But we got SO lucky and it was 53 degrees and sunny for the wedding.  Thank Goodness!

     
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    gabrielleelise1981    August 28, 2010   Portland, Maine

    We’re in Maine, and getting married in late summer out on Peaks Island. Fall is my favorite season, but I wanted the wedding outdoors by the water, so fall was potentially too risky for me.

    Also, all my FH’s family lives in Southern California, so unless it’s 90 the day of our wedding, they will be freezing – so summer it is! Since it’s an island, we should have a nice constant breeze.

     
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    PinkPinstripes    November 2011   Boston, MA

    Moose- you were lucky!! March is a tough month with our weather! That's awesome for you though!

     
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    Edina    June 2010  

    Another Boston girl here!

    I chose June 4th. I would have loved a fall wedding, especially at our outdoor venue, but September & early October were already booked! And waiting until October would have made it almost a 2 year engagement, which my husband and I just weren't feeling. We had already been living together for 2 years when we got engaged.

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    I hate being cold and love the vibe of a great summer night so that's why we chose August. I have been to so many beautiful wedding in winter, spring, and fall as well.

     
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    allisonc    October 9, 2010   Boston, MA, wedding in Middletown, CT

    I'm from Boston, fiance is from NYC, so we chose Connecticut and the fall. I love the summer, but we were aiming for more temperate weather without too much sweating because when we booked our venue, they didn't have AC!! They do now, but I'm glad we stuck with the fall, the foliage should be glorious!

     
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    toady    October 2, 2010   Massachusetts

    We're on the South Shore of Massachusetts and getting married October 2. :)

     
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    r elizabeth    July 24, 2010   Maine

    @gabrielleelise1981- Peaks Island is a beautiful place for a wedding!!

     
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    sweetkischa    September 26, 2010   MA

    We're just shy of the NH border in MA and getting married on the southern ME coast where I grew up and picked late September to avoid all the traffic and crowds that go with summer.  We have an afternoon wedding planned, so hopefully we will have one of those beautiful early fall days where it's warm but not too hot.  If I had my way we would have had a Christmas wedding, but my FI and his family refuse to go anywhere in the snow. :-( 

     
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    Adira    October 3, 2009   New England

    We got married in October.  It was a day before our dating anniversary and I didn't want to wait six more months to get married, so we rushed it to have it in October.  :P

    ETA: Forgot to add the "where" part!  We just bought a house in April and we decided that we'd love to have a small intimate wedding at our home in NH!  So that's what we did.  :)

     
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    plantains    July 17, 2011   Live in NY, wedding in CT

    We live in NYC but are getting married in Mystic, CT. We chose summer because I absolutley cannot bear to be cold and have always associated my wedding with a beutufl summer evening.

     
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    iggies    March 2011  

    we're massachusetts/connecticut in august. we just needed it to be during a time when school was out and the month of july didn't work for our families. my friend is getting married in the fall in massachusetts. i would have loved to do that too, but our families are too far for that to have worked well.

     
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    Miss Peace    November 5, 2010   New York

    I love the fall in New England :)

     
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    Bailzoe    August 2010  

    I had wanted a fall wedding, I love the leaves and how it isn't very hot. Summer just worked best for us though. We're in grad school, and we'd be in the middle of the semester if we chose to have the wedding in Sept/Oct. 

     
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    Joeswaffle    September 25, 2010   Southern Maine/Seacoast NH

    I am similar to Sweetkischa we are getting married in september in hopes that the crowds die down.

    Pink - a friends of mine got married early may in boston and had her reception above the orginal cheers and had their photos in the common. It was beautiful with all of the flowers starting to blossom.

     
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    7SEVENJ9    September 25, 2010  

    September 25th in Nahant MA! Beautiful that time of year, and ocean front ceremony with a reception overlooking the harbor - can't wait!

     
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    PinkPinstripes    November 2011   Boston, MA

    Joeswaffle- that sounds beautiful! I've seen couples getting their pictures taken there...and I stand and stare like a complete dork lol

    So far we have a dead tie between summer and fall!

     
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    sboston06    October 10, 2010   Boston area

    We chose the fall because I wanted to be done with nursing school, and I didn't want to wait another 6 months for the spring.  I really wanted to get married in May but we ended up with October and I can't wait!  My sister got married last Sept. in NH and the weather was PERFECT!

     
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    prettyflowers    September 2010  

    We chose early fall for our western MA wedding.

    The weather is usually great that time of year - definitely not still "summer hot" - but you don't need to wear a coat or anything yet.

    Last year on 9/25, I paid attention to the weather that day since we had already booked the wedding.  It was incredibly gorgeous, sunny, but not hot.  Just a little bit of foliage starting - but no "dirty" leaves on the ground yet.  Hoping for the same this year :)

     
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    belledowdy    August 14, 2010   Vermont

    We chose August in Vermont! We live in Vermont and feel lucky to call this state our home.

     
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    BostonBaby    January 2012   MA

    Am I the only winter bride so far?! We're both native Bostonians, so south shore or Cape -- yes, even in winter. I'm not a warm weather lover, and the timing isn't right for us for autumn. My weddings dreams always had snow in them somewhere, so I guess that one will come true!

    I think sometimes I have an alto-ego wedding planned in my head: Cape in summer, short dress, jazz quintet, clam bake. But I couldn't possibly be more thrilled about our cozy January nuptials!

     
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    menobride    June 5, 2011   NH

    We're June 5th, and we are getting married at Strawbery Banke, Portsmouth, in the smaller garden.

     
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    Miss Sox in the City    August 6, 2010   Lowell, MA

    We're August 6th in northeast & central (or as I call it "western") MA. The ceremony is in Lowell and the reception is in Devens, MA. I'm a teacher so a summer wedding just made sense. Plus, our colors are bright pink and green so they work well for the season!

    Fall is my favorite New England season though!

     
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    jenandchris    October 22, 2011   live in Brooklyn, getting married in MA

    I'm SO excited for my fall wedding :)  I always knew, growing up in MA, that I would have a fall wedding.  And it works out perfectly with my FI's med school schedule, which is nice.  I can't wait to work with the foliage colors and use them as free decor :)

     
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    fancypants    August 12, 2012   Vermont

    We live in VT and we will be getting married in VT in early August.  Works out because I am a grad student.

     
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    smiles1979    April 30, 2011   Nrth Central, MA

    I voted for Spring.

    Though initially my FI and I were thinking a Fall wedding in MA as well and really would've loved to have it in that season.  However, for various reasons decided on Spring 2011.

    Some reasons..;) my FI proposed for my 30th bday (gulp!) which was this past November.  That being a nice 'special time' for us both, it was looking to be Fall 2010 or 2011. Well, we were also in the works of getting a house and had no real idea of when the closing would be and my FI and I would be the ones paying for it, so then Fall 2010 would be too soon.  So..as days past, my FI suggested we get married 'on paper' before the house closing, but for so many reasons, I just didn't want to do that.  So, considered the idea of moving up our date to Spring...  Then finally closed on the house this January ;) and ended up with Spring 2011. 

    So, changed up Fall ideas for Spring ones...and so far, it's turning out great.  (Though, am hoping to get our e-session pics. done in the Fall at least) ;) 

    As for the 'where'...in regards to city/town choice- I don't really have a home town (grew up all over the place), so I was more open to having it in the same town where my FI is from. Though also b/c we bought our first home here and I think that adds a special meaning for us both (and for me to really begin to feel like I can call this place 'home') As for wedding day location - decided a hotel would be best - (having a big mix of OOT and local family/friends), this would give our guests the ease of accommodations/having the ceremony/reception in the same place. :) Plus, is most cost effective for us all around as well.

    Thanks for letting me share. :) 

     
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    Adnama54    August 29, 2010   Boston, MA

    August 29th at the Oceanview in Gloucester, MA :-)))

     
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    BunnyBrideToBe    December 3, 2011   Boston, MA

    We're having a winter wedding in the Boston suburbs at an old estate.  Hoping for elegant, winter white...and I'm hoping for snow; we'll see!  FI and I are both native to the region, and most of the extended family is from this area, too, so we're not worried about people freaking out in the snow.  I wish next winter would hurry up, already, though!

     
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    capebride924    September 24, 2011   Boston/Cape Cod

    We live in Boston, but love love love cape cod and knew before we got engaged we would want to have our wedding there.  The Cape is laid back, special to us, and perfect for an early Fall wedding.  We're getting married after all the tourists head home :) 9/24/11 in Dennis.

     
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    mishelleez    November 5, 2010   DW- Bahamas

    We are getting married in Nov because workwise we could take time off. And in the Bahamas so we had a good excuse for not inviting anyone!

    The reception will be in maine. It was originally supposed to be in Dec but we had to change it because of the Venue. We are having a christmas themed wedding right after thanksgiving;)

     

     
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    BostonBaby    January 2012   MA

    @BunnyBrideToBe: We're crossing our fingers for snow too! We want an outdoor ceremony (if the weather cooperates), and a layer of snow on the gound would be ideal. And, like you, we're from the area and so are our families, so the "omg SNOW!!!" reaction shouldn't be an issue.

     
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    jedcaj    January 2, 2012  

    Oct 2nd of this year in Maine outdoors at a venue with hundreds of acres of fields, stone walls, apple trees, and flowers! Can't wait to have all the pictures with all of the leaves changing in the background! Plus we love the outdoors and our venue is available to be rented out for 36 hours (sat-sun) and provides camp sites for out of town guests who don't mind camping, or rv hook ups and want to stay up and enjoy the day well into the night with a bonfire, toasting marshmellows, and dancing. 

     
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    Habibah14    October 24, 2010   Fairfield County, Connecticut

    CT girl here (FI is from MA) and we're doing October, not only is it our anniversary month but c'mon! New England in the fall no better time IMO! Leaves turning colors, crisp air, LOVE IT! :)

     
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    bunnylovesbear    February 19, 2011   north of Boston, MA

    I'm also planning a winter wedding in New England.  Our ceremony will be in Massachusetts at the church my fiance's parents were married in, and the reception is at a gorgeous vineyard in New Hampshire.  Our families are a little concerned about snow, but we've all lived here our whole lives, so I don't see what the big deal is!  We are used to driving in the snow!  HA.  

    The main reason we decided on a winter wedding was because my late father's birthday happens to fall on a Saturday night in 2011, so I thought that would be a nice way to include him in our day.  And when I told my fiance of this, he loved it.  And then told me he was secretly hoping I wouldnt want a summer wedding, so it worked out perfectly for us! 

     
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    fieldielover    September 10, 2011   Boston/wedding in ME

    We live in Boston and FI grew up going to Bar Harbor, so we were pretty sure we wanted to get married there in the fall - so we're set for Southwest Harbor in September 2011!

     
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    CapeBoundBride    June 3, 2011   MD/VA -legally wed 4/22/11

    We're planning for March 19th on or near Martha's Vineyard. There were so many advantages to going with this date: SO is in school and will have spring break at that time, our anniversary is in March, the two venues we are looking at are significantly cheaper during March since it is off-season, and it's at the tail end of winter so there's potential for snow, which I love, or a sunny day! We won't be able to choose between the two venues until we are able to visit in September so I'm hoping we get that date.

     
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    AprilJo2011    April 9, 2011  

    @7SEVENJ9: Is it the Oceanview by any chance?  B/c that's what we chose for our venue!

    So it's, Nahant, MA.  And April 2011. The venue considers this off-season, so we're getting 10% off. :-)

     

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