(Closed) New here and thinking I may be in over my head :)

posted 6 years ago in June 2013
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My wedding is next June and I have lots of stuff booked, but you will be fine! I am just one of those early planners. You have the big stuff booked, the venue and the photographer. I would go look at dresses soon (some take months to come in and then alterations). In my opinion, you are fine..but I would start looking around for DJ’s, bridesmaid dress, cakes, etc.:) Good luck and no worries!!:)

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Welcome to the hIve!

Of course you can do this. Make a list of what needs to be done, priorize the list and knock things off the list one by one.

Make sure you do your budget first and allocate some money for a contingency fund, so if something goes over it’s not going to be a major problem.

I’m sure all the bees will be more than happy to help with ideas.

Remember we do not all have magazine weddings. We live in the real world, but simple and pretty will trump expensive and gaudy every time.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

You can absolutely do this!

I’d recommend making a priority list of what you still have to do, and just start working your way down– personally I found theknot.com to have the best planning checklist.  

The biggest time constraint you’ll hit is with your dress because many salons require as much as 3 months to order; so if you haven’t started, I’d recommend thinking about that.  

 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@AlbertaLolita:  Try eBay and search for “lots” of brooches!

Welcome to the hive!  As long as you have the big stuff done, you’ll be fine!  There are a lot of brides out there that have done it with a lot less time than we have!

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Ha! you have more than me, and I’m doing a destination wedding!! I have the ceremon/reception site already “booked”, bought a dress and have received several quotes from photographers but have not chosen one. That is IT.
By the way, when are you ladies doing the save the dates? 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Yay for June 2013 brides.  You’re doing great.  Yes get your list going.  Assign tasks for your FI and just plug along.  We’re DOYing a lot for our out of state wedding.  When it gets closer we’ll probably end up hiring people to finish what we couldn’t 🙂

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Monana:  We’re actually sending them Sept 1st.  We’re doing one visit to Idaho to see some family before the CA wedding in June.  We want people to be able to ask questions and have the STD to refer back to.  I read 6-12 months depending on your wedding i.e. in state, destination, during holidays, high travel season etc.

Post # 12
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101 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I was thinking to send mine in early October. That is, if the FI and I can decide on a picture we both like!! 

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Oh you’re TOTALLY fine!! I got married in June, and by mid-August of the previous year, all I’d taken care of was the venue/catering.

Post # 14
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Girl I hear ya! We have had an intensely busy summer (not that that will change come fall…) and we’ve only checked a few (albeit major, like venue) items off our list. It’s easy to feel intimidated when all our wonderful month twins seem to be so good at planning ahead! I’m just taking it as a great way to find inspiration and hear advice on all the stuff I can’t even think about tackling yet… Like pretty much ALL DIY projects…

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Welcome to the hive, first off!!! 🙂 

And of course you have time to plan the rest! I’ve seen bees on here plan in less time and have a beautiful wedding! 

I am doing my own decorations as well (including centerpeices), so it all depends on what kind of decor you’re going for! I’ve been shopping at craft stores, walmart, etc. 

 

 

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