(Closed) New Here- His Harping Drove Me Here

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1909 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Hi, there! Welcome to the boards 🙂

I’m sorry this is the situation you’re in and sending hugs your way. How do you feel about waiting a few more weeks until after your birthday? Are you ready to move on, or are you okay to continue in the relationship with or without a proposal?

Post # 5
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1177 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Why won’t he let you move to your own apartment? I’m confused!

Post # 6
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1671 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think you should just wait it out till you birthday.  If he doesn’t propose then you will need to have the talk again.  I would definitely wait till you are engaged before living together.  Glad your relationship is better now. : )

Post # 7
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1231 posts
Bumble bee

yea, i don’t understand why you don’t move into your own place. Its a great time to be independent and on your own (and you only have to clean up after yourself!) I guess wait until your birthday and see what happens, but if he’s going to only be near you for 7 months what then? I’m sorry theres so much info to take in, im a little lost! 🙂

Post # 9
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Wannabee

Is your current living situation tolerable? If a proposal seems soon, I could understand how you might want to put that money you’d be spending on rent toward your future together instead. Some of the most independent people I know haven’t lived on their own… there are lots of ways to cultivate independence!

Post # 10
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Waiting for a proposal is one thing, but him haulting you moving out, and moving forward as an adult isn’t fair either. I would give him a little longer. Then let him know it’s time for you to mature and get an apartment. I would then get a roomate and start living life for you and not for him. You’ve waited 3 years for a proposal and if he needs to wait another year to live together, that’s his own fault.

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