Post # 1
Recently I quit a job–that I hated…two weeks later I was offered a new job (friday), the next day we went to the new city and looked at apartments, that day we put down money for the place. I started the new job on Tuesday….a week ago. I have been an emotional wreck with everything going on. We are offically moving on the 19th, I have been staying in the new place, sleeping on an air mat, and just trying to make it through these few weeks. The wedding stuff has really gone to the wayside….which I guess is fine….but I honestly have no desire to plan it anymore. I want to get married I just dont wanna plan it!
Post # 3
I am in your shoes! My Fiance and I are getting married next month. He is moving back to our hometown at the start of June. We still need to find a place to live. He will be looking for a job, and we have a ton of wedding things left to do.
Needless to say, my emotions have been HAYWIRE lately. It also doesn’t help that I’m a teacher, there’s a ton of stuff to do at the end of the year, and I switched medications about a month ago, and I think that may be at play, too. Neat, right?
I’ve felt what you’ve felt. There are times where I just want to say ‘forget it’ and run off and elope. Then, there are times where I’m all into the planning. It sounds totally cliche, but take it one step, one day at a time. I made great use of The Knot’s wedding planner, and I stuck to what I had to do that day, that week, and if I had time/energy, I tackled any extra projects.
I’ll also be honest…I took a semi-vacation this past weekend. I didn’t really go anywhere. I let myself stay in bed until 2:30pm, I did do some school work, but I just let myself relax. I felt so refreshed at the start of this week. My to-do list is growing by the second, but it does feel more manageable.
You certainly have a lot of big changes going on! Hang in there. You can always message me if you need someone to vent to!