- 4 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
Need some advice. I’ve been out of town for a little while visiting family and won’t be back untill most likely sometime next week, anyways. I have been with SO for 6 years and engaged for one, we have lived together 2 years as well.
We bought brand new house(semi-detached) and no ones moved into it until now. FI met the new neighbor before I left on vacation but I haven’t had a chance to meet her, He said shes younger and living there on her own but didn’t talk too much cuz busy but she seemed nice.
SO good friend and his girlfriend come to visit often and she called me to tell me she met her and was being honest and said she is very pretty and was getting jealous because her bf kept staring at her. I asked SO (LOL I know, stupid..yes. But just wanted to tell him what my friend said and see his reaction). He’s honest and said yes she is good looking but whatever no biggie. I didn’t freak out, and even said well thats good heard she’s nice maybe we might become good friends because I could use some new GF’S in the area.
I have no idea how much they talk or see eachother and I haven’t been worrying about it. Past weekend he hung out with his old buddie and they went out(FI never goes out, so no big deal).
My FI brought up that his friend kept trying to get girls and that 2 of the girls actually made out infront of my FI and his friend (clASSy). I then asked if any girls hit on him this weekend while out and he said yes there were a few but its no big deal, not to worry.
That didn’t bother me so much, he told me that when they got back to our place the new neighbour had her friends over and were playing drinking games and invited him and his friend over. They hung out with them and partied, I obviously don’t know all the details.
I asked if he thinks she’s interested in him and he hesistated and said it wouldn’t matter anyway because we’re engaged. I know the way my FI can be, hes the friendliest person in the world, very out-going and even if it was an old man next door he’d probly go over and get to know him. I just hope this girl isn’t getting the wrong idea, especially since we never met and I’ve been away. He has told me before when she first moved in asking if he was single..
I do trust him and don’t think he would ever cheat but I do worry if feelings start because she is a very goodlooking girl, successful and living right next to us!
I hate feeling jealous but I can’t help it when it comes to this. What do you think?