(Closed) New to the board-anyone ttc before the wedding?

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Yep I’m 23 and FI is 28 we are getting married in may 2014 but have decided to ttc 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Yes ma’am! I am 23 and he is 29 and we are TTC starting in January. Wedding is in March. We’re NTNT right now. If it happens, it happens. We had a surprise pregnancy that ended in  miscarriage in May and ever since then we have been dying to start TTC. However, not fitting in my $1500 dress is reason enough to wait a little closer until the wedding.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

We had thought about it – I’m 24 and he’s 35 – we seem to have lots of friends having difficulty so want to try – but since I’m young and we’re having a huge wedding I wanted to 1. not be sick on my honeymoon 2. not get judged that I got knocked up (super traditional family) 3. wouldn’t fit into the dress 4. could relax and drink at all the festivities leading up.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We did lol.  I’m 28, he’s younger then me, but we decided to NTNT about 4 months before the wedding.  With one month left before the wedding, I tested and was pregnant.  So on my wedding day I was 2 months pregnant.  Fortunatly I didn’t gain a ton of weight right off the bat so my dress still fit (the corset back helped).  The only down side was fighting with horrible miserable never ending morning sickness.  The actual day of the wedding it wasn’t too bad, I think I was too excited to feel sick, but the days leading up to the wedding were tough while we were getting everything set up.  

Looking back, I can’t regret it- we both are super excited about the baby, and couldn’t be happier. However it was rough as far a planning/prepping with not feeling well and dealing with your body changing.  Also keep in mind that a destination wedding may not be doable if you’re pregnant.  You may not be comfortable with travel depending on how far along you are, or your doctor may veto it if you are high risk.  If you’re okay with a local wedding scaled around how well you are feeling depending on how the pregnancy goes I’d say go for it and try.  If its going to bother you if you don’t get the wedding of your dreams it might be better to wait a little longer. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We started TTC about 7 months before our wedding with no luck.  We have been married for 6+ months are still TTC… Baby dust your way though!  Best of luck!

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