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New to the Hive, and intro

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    CurlyRN    August 18, 2012   Minnesota

    Hello bees! I wanted to introduce myself. I will be an encore bride as they are called on here, and I am waiting for my proposal...and the other half of a bike...(a bit long) pull up a chair.

    We were set-up, a blind date Nov 2009, by a mutual friend. I had been divorced 2 years, separated in my heart, nearly 7 and he separated 2.5 years, waiting for divorce the same amount of time.

    Our 1st Valentines was right around the time that Governor from South Carolina, was found to be hanging out with his 'soul mate' in Central America, never mind he was married at the time. In the weeks that followed as the wife hit the TV circuit, it was shared the guy was a terrible cheapskate. He had, over a series of big red letter calendar days, given his wife, a millionaire in her own right, drawings of half bikes as gifts. The final gift being a drawing of a complete bike and a used $25 garage sale bike!!!

    Fast forward to that 1st V-Day and we had finished dinner, was at his place opening gifts, he got a North Face pullover, I got lotion, Victoria Secret gift card and a card. In the card was a drawing of half a bike! I laughed so hard I nearly peed! He totally got my sense of humor and I think took a risk doing so.

    Since then, ‘the other half of the bike’ has been our cheeky code for a ring.

    As luck would have it, he won a bike in a tournament Friday night and it is just sitting in his garage. We are also SERIOUSLY talking marriage, engagement, moving in and all the details associated with everything. He wants me to move in with him, before engagement (that will be another post).

    I have to somehow get the newly won bike into my next mention of MY other half of the bike…suggestions?

     
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    milesbella    September 17, 2011   Iowa

    Welcome to the bee, Curly!

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @CurlyRN: Welcome to the hive!

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    Welcome to the Hive.

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    Welcome to the encore board and what a way to begin your new love/life story!

    The encore board is a wonderful way to celebrate the weddings of those who have been previously married, and trade unique and exciting ideas to make your wedding day the most special day of your life! 

     
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    CurlyRN    August 18, 2012   Minnesota

    Thanks for the welcome.

    On Tuesday, I mentioned that the weather is improving and I would love the other half of that bike...he said all in due time.

    Sigh. Waiting is the worst.

     
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    Miss.Lace    April 30, 2011   Austin

    Welcome!! Hope its sooner than later! :)

     
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    Nickynick    August 7, 2011   Ohio

    Welcome to the hive.

     
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    blondilocks    June 11, 2011   Atlanta

    Welcome!! Awesome story.  How about the next holiday or quirky gift day you get him a bicycle tire and a little note saying "Im ready for the other half of that bike"  or evena bell for a bike LOL

     
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    sdrury89    March 10, 2012   Houston, TX

    Welcome! That is such a sweet story! I hope you get your half of the bike soon!

     
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    Chiotilidieo    July 14, 2013   Kernersville,NC

    welcome!

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    How sweet, and welcome to the hive :-)

    You have a great writing style!

     
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    mbk318    May 27, 2012   Charleston, SC

    welcome!

     
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    CurlyRN    August 18, 2012   Minnesota

    @blondilocks: That is a great idea. I never thought to get an accessory for the bike...I know I am starting to see Spring Bike Tune-up coupons...perhaps one should be taped to his door???

     
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    Lilacgal    April 22, 2011   Ohio

    Welcome Curly! Looking forward to your e-ring post!

     
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    helenberrycrunch    January 1, 1992  

    Welcome to the hive! I always like RNs.

     
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    Luralee    July 2, 2012   Arizona

    I'm a new "encore" waiting for a ring too!  We've been together for 3 years, lived together for 2 and we talk engagement and wedding quite often, but the anticipation is awful!!!  I told him I wanted and engagement ring and he bought me a rock polisher as a joke.  sigh.  But I have hope and am (after 30 years lol) developing patience!  Here's to the future!!!

     

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