(Closed) New to weddingbee, and waiting!

posted 5 years ago in Proposals
  • poll: Is 6 months too short a time to get engaged even if you're living together for 3 of them?
    Way too soon : (15 votes)
    42 %
    Soon, but it can work : (9 votes)
    25 %
    Not too soon : (0 votes)
    Depends on the couple : (12 votes)
    33 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Just let it happen when it happens. Don’t think about it!

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Click on NWR next to Wedding Related then waiting. There’s a whole board of ladies in your boat! 🙂 I was a waiting myself just a month ago.

    I personally think 6 months is too soon, but then again there’s always that story floating around about Bobby and Sue getting married after 3 months and they’ve been together for eleventy million years. Who am I to judge? I hope you enjoy this time…it goes quick!

    Post # 5
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    613 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Age and life situation is something to consider as well. How old are you, if you don’t mind me asking?

    Post # 6
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    482 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

     I agree it depends on age and life situation

    Post # 8
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    613 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @GingerSweepea, I’m the same age. Has either of you been studying? I’d personally make sure you’ve ironed out any kinks that can happen when living together. I moved in with my SO at 6 months, and 9 months later there are still things I’m learning about how to live with someone else/him (holy crap put your shoes on the rack!!!!! Ahhhh!)

    I would really recommend a long engagement for you, if the length of the relationship is quite short 🙂 I was dreaming about getting married to my SO 3 months in…that was a year ago…but I was still quite certain I’d want to be in a relationship for at least a yaer before being engaged.

    Basically what I’m trying to say is that you still learn a lot about each other in the first year, and that you may learn something that could be a deal breaker. Hopefully you don’t!

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