- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
So, he and I have been living apart, for three days, but he’s still been texting me. Tonight, I decided to tell him that I missed him, and wanted to come back home so we could talk this out. I addressed that I shouldn’t have minimzed his physical pain, and that I should have been more sensitive to his needing to rest.
He said that what really bothered him, is that I dont love myself enough to commit to being a team (?) Im guessing he means he thinks I won’t be there in sickness and health, which I get. I told him that wasn’t true, and although I couldn’t prove it, I would try to work on it. I’m working on self,-love, it doesn’t happen overnight. He still says he’s very hurt and angry, that hes crushed and needs more time. I told him I think it sucks that he wont even work it out with me, and wants to banish me from our home. A big fight ensued, and obviously nothing got resolved. I told him if we were going to be married, we needed to be able to work shit out, that leaving isn’t an option. So yeah, didn’t go quite as I had hoped.
Like you all said, I said I was sorry, I meant it, now lets move on, talk it out and stop being a bitch. I know I can be a handful, but its times like this when we need to be a team even more.. I’m so confused, and honestly I’m more surprised at his reaction than anything.