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I live in New York: Interested in a support group? Or one-time get together?

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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    Hello! 

    I'm Bridepower, I have written several posts now as I joined about three weeks ago.

    I would love to get together with other brides!  One of the reasons is:

    At this time I am the only person I know getting married.  Amongst my friends are women who are divorced, cheated on, miserable and bitter who despise men and who I'm pretty sure are unhappy and jealous that I'm getting married (some of them are bridesmaids).  I only have one friend (who is happily married and is my MOH) with whom I can jump up and down with excitement and joy about getting married!

    My FH"s large family are genuinely excited for us (they are also happily married) but I don't know them well and they live in another state from me anyway.  I have a tiny family, only know my immediate relatives.  My sister who does not speak to me has an unhappy marriage with infidelity and is also jealous I"m getting married from what I understand. 

    I wish I had more people in my life with whom I can share my joy.  Then I got the idea of hanging out with other happy brides I could find through this website or others, either as a support group or just even a one-time get together!

    After the holidays would work for me, preferrably after mid-January.

    I'm in Staten Island, NY.  But I can travel to other areas of NYC.

    Anyone interested? :)

     

     

     

     
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    moderndaisy    June 2010  

    Hi Bridepower, I would be interested in a get-together if others are on board. I wasn't able to make the NY meetup in September since I was attending my sisters bachelorette party.

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    Great!  I didn't even know there was a NY meetup.  Well, I just joined.

    Where are you in NY? What town would work for you? 

     
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    BrooklynBride10    October 9, 2010   nyc

    I'd be interested!  I live in Brooklyn, and don't drive, so I'd definitely prefer something in Manhattan or Brooklyn, but Queens or the Bronx could work too. :)

     
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    twalila    May 2010   Ohio

    I'm game!  My whole family and entire bridal party live in other states, so I've been planning solo and would love to get together with some other Bees!!

    I'm in midtown=)

     
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    GirlWithARing    September 5, 2010   Living in NYC, marrying in Philadelphia

    I'm up for this! I'm also mostly planning alone - family and bridal party live all over the place, plus none of my friends are engaged or even interested in marriage yet :) 

    I live in Manhattan, so a meet-up here would be great.

     

     
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    Orange124    July 2010   NYC, getting married in NJ

    I am in Manhattan too! Would love to meet up!

     
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    eupenmalmody    September 5, 2010   Living in NYC - getting married in Philadelphia

    I'm game - I live in Queens, but work in Manhattan!

     
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    Miss Pizzelle    September 5, 2010   New York, NY

    Let's do this!!! I live in Manhattan and would perfer Manhattan or popular areas of Brooklyn... but no Staten Island :)

     

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    I would definitely be interested as well! I"m also the only one of my friends to be getting married, and I would love to have other bride-to-bees to talk to :) I live in Manhattan, so that would work best for me!

     
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    NeliBee    April 10, 2010  

    I would be interested in as well!!!

     
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    Miss Meepsie    01/15/10   NYC

    I'm definitely down.  Prefer Manhattan too.  Though hopefully it won't end up being my wedding weekend! 

     
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    starcharades    December 31, 2011   Philadelphia

    I'm in Manhattan too. Would love to meet up! Let me know :)

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    Hi everyone!!! So sorry I haven't been able to respond, being on vacation finally has had me just resting and sitting on the couch.  This is the first time I'm checking the responses to the idea of meeting up.

    Ok, Manhattan works for me too! 

    I'm off until the third week of January so I'm pretty flexible. 

    What days of the week work for everyone?  A weekday?  A weekend?

    Mary

     
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    starcharades    December 31, 2011   Philadelphia

    I'm good during the week...every night but Monday. 

     
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    GirlWithARing    September 5, 2010   Living in NYC, marrying in Philadelphia

    I'm usually at work until really late each day, so a weekend would work best for me. Or a Friday/Thursday night might be easier to get off early.

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    ok, i can do a weekend!

    i'm actually in nyc on fri. working.  i get out in the early eve. i'm on 34th street by herald square.

    at this point except for and jan 1. and also jan 15 (i'll be away at the in-laws :) i'm free the other fridays in jan.

    how does this sound to everyone?

    if fri doesn't work i could certainly do another w/e day.

     
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    SaraAileen20    June 19, 2010  

    I would love to meet up, I'll just throw a date out- who wants to meet Thursday January 14th in the East Village?

     
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    mlbiaso    July 10, 2010   New York

    I would love to meet up too. I am about a half hour outside of the city!

     
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    starcharades    December 31, 2011   Philadelphia

    I'm good with Thursday the 14th! As long as it's after 5. Let me know! :)

     
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    rplatzer    August 15, 2010   NYC, wedding in CT

    This is such a great idea! I'm also the only one I know getting married and have been feeling particularly overwhelmed lately.

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    Unfortunately I can't do Thursday evenings, I work on that night in Staten Island.

    Is a Friday evening at all a possibility?

     

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I'm a bit delayed but I'm totally down! 

    I'm in the same boat, my friends and family just kinda don't get it.

    I can easily go to any locale but I couldn't do this 15th, I have to go upstate to do the menu selection :(

     
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    BrooklynBride10    October 9, 2010   nyc

    Fridays are generally best for me, since I work afternoons and evenings the rest of the week.

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    great! yeah like i said i'm at 34th street herald square, nyc. done in the evening on Fridays.  i'm willing to travel tho.

     
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    Dancy905    February 5, 2010  

    Wow, I've been away for the holidays so I didn't see this. I'm down for a meet-up. FI's cousin is getting married the 15th & the rehearsal's the 14th so that's out for me but that's about it. I work in mid-town but I'll go wherever (uhhh by wherever I mean as long as it's in manhattan.LOL).

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    How about January 22nd? Does that Friday work for everyone?

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    Jan 22nd works for me!

     
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    hamster    May 2010  

    Hi! What a great idea, bridepower!  I would love to meet everyone! :)

     
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    LittleSpitfire    9.25.10   nj

    I'd love to attend, too!  I work in NYC and Friday the 22nd works for me.

     
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    eupenmalmody    September 5, 2010   Living in NYC - getting married in Philadelphia

    Would also love to attend on the 22nd! I work in midtown so anywhere is convenient for me!

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    Friday the 22 works for me!  Perfect timing as I am going with some my bridesmaids (lol) that Sunday to look at dresses.  Could use the support.

    Ok, midtown!  Fabulous.  Where should we meet, a bar? Restaurant?  If there's going to be a number of us we should find a place that will have enough seats for everyone.

    And does around 8 pm work?

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    once we've got it all set, i'm going to title a blog so that other bees can know.

     
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    me too me too! great idea, bridepower.  the 22nd works for me.

     
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    teaadntoast    04/23/2010   New York, NY

    couldicometooplease? Embarassed

     
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    nancyt81    October 10, 2010  

    i'd def be interested.  can we do more like 7ish instead of 8ish?

    do we want something near penn station or port authority for everyone's convenience?  if near penn station, there's stout on 33th that has a downstairs for quiet and big space upstairs (street level).  

     
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    Miss Meepsie    01/15/10   NYC

    I'll probably be there!  If I'm not burnt out post-wedding!  :)

     
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    LittleSpitfire    9.25.10   nj

    That sounds great!  Can you also update this thread since I am technologically challenged and may not see the blog?  Thanks!

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    Okay great! So the 22nd...do we have a location yet? 7pm good for everyone?

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    and @Miss meepsie: congrats! your day is almost here--so exciting!!

     

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