(Closed) Newlyweds discussing divorce…Changed mind about kids

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Oh I am so so sorry you are going through this! How heartbreaking. 🙁 I haven’t gone through this myself (not married yet), but it would be a dealbreaker for me, too…((HUGS))

Post # 4
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713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

That really sucks – I’m so sorry. I haven’t gone through that but I know more than one couple that has struggled with this. I think it’s really really unfair of someone to enter into an engagement on certain terms and then change her mind. That said… if she really loves you then it may explain why she convinced herself that she wanted kids. How old are you guys? (if you don’t mind my asking…) could she see herself wanting kids in a couple of years? I hope that you guys can get through this…

Post # 5
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1309 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Man that’s so unfair of her to do. I’m sure she can’t help what she feels, but seriously! Esp since she is the one who proposed.

Honestly it’s also unfair to bring kids into a family where one parent may be kinda ambivalent about having them. So even if she does another 180 this may not be the right relationship to build a family in. Sucks big time. I’m sure you already know that, not too helpful am I. I am not sure there’s a good solution to this where nobody gets hurt 🙁

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