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    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    How do you dress for bed? Sexy for your hubby or do you dress comfortable?

    Right now, I dress into whatever I can fit into lol. All my previous tanks, shorts or pj pants are too tight around the abdomen as you can imagine. Before hand though, it was mostly tanks and shorts and the occasional pj pants. When I am sick, I wear my footie pj's lol...

    Maybe after the baby, I will beef up my sexy pj collection. The hubs may actually like it.

     
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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    Hhahaha I only wear a pair of unds (underwear)...boy shorts usually.  MrJKH likes it that way (he claims he gets "too hot" when I wear clothes to bed).  Around the house in the winter I wear cute flannel pjs from target or comfy pants/tshirt.  I have "sexy nighties" but I don't usually wear them to bed since I ake up and they are all tangled around me and my neck...hahha

     
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    JoesWifey    May 24, 2009   NYC/Wedding in Indiana

    some fuzzy pajama pants and an oversized tee shirt usually lol At least in the winter. I'll do nightgowns in the summer. Or sometimes just my undies if it's hot. I try to wear nice things to bed, but he really doesn't care. He just hates if I wear a bra to bed, otherwise he doesnt give two hoots.

     
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    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    Ya know, the hubs actually hates when I wear a bra to bed too. That usually only happens if I fell asleep without taking it off. I love being free - boobing (woman's equiv to free balling, lol)

     
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    Usually shorts and a shirt but lately just a shirt as my shorts are starting to get caught in the bed.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    During the summer I wear nighties or little shorts and tank tops. But nighties are my favorite. Only if they have some support up top. I get really uncomfy if i'm just dangling there. Shelf tanks are my friend!

    During the winter, we keep our house at 64 degrees. It's cold. I've been wearing long sleeves or a non-hooded sweatshirt to bed with some flannel pajama bottoms. They aren't sexy but it's flippin' freezin!

     
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    MissCamera    August 1, 2009   Upstate NY

    I usually just wear a tshirt or hoodie & pj pants to bed. Nothing sexy. I have a few nighties that I bought that I've never worn. Its kind of sad actually. lol

     
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    EveryEventElegant       Delaware, Ohio

    I wear my birthday suit lol.

    @Robbybride09- my whole family lives in Easton/ Bethlehem! My uncle is a really successful realestate agent there. Maybe you've seen the signs for his business McPeek Century 21? I miss PA!

     
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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    @ejs4y8....our house is at 62 (sometimes 65...woohoo!!) and the FI INSISTS on running the ceiling fan and an industrial fan inside the bedroom while we sleep.....ITS FREEZING!!!!!  I <3 my down comforter in the winter  :o)

     
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    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    @EveryEvent - Hey! I love this area. I was away for over a decade so I missed it very much. As for your uncle, I can't say that I have heard of him yet. I probably will once we start looking for a house. We have only returned to the LV in the last 5 months.

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    a tank and either boxer-style shorts (quite a few I have purchase from Target or Old Navy) but lately, tank and sweatpants...and not just that, but hubby's sweatpants....very sexy, lol.  they're heather grey and I call it "bunny suit" because they're super cuddly, haha!  Hubs rolls his eyes...

     
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    rnc620    June 20, 2009   STL

    Back in the day I used to sleep in just underoos and maybe a t-shirt.  Once I got pregnant I started sleeping in yoga pants and t-shirts.  Now that she's born and I have to slip into bed without waking her I sleep in whatever I'm wearing that day.  I slept in coruroys the other night.. lol.. I'm still wearing maternity pants for the most part though so they're not too contricting.  Also, they tell you to wear a bra at all times when your breastfeeding so I wear my bra to bed always.  That's been difficult to get used to.

    I can't wait until I loose the baby weight and she sleeps better so I can go back to just sleeping in my cutsie little tees and undies... someday.. sigh..

     
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    kayakgirl73    October 31, 2009   Virginia, (wedding in WV)

    Fleece jammies right now, not sure what I will do when I gets warm. I'll wear sexy stuff sometimes but after we DTD I usually breakout the fleece or flannel.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    @MrsJKH2bek we keep our ceiling fan on, too!!! I like the circulating air. But we seriously bundle up under the bed! In the morning it's not too cold though so I guess it's not bad.

     
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    otb    December 31, 2009   Chicago, IL

    It depends.  If I'm really hot before I go to bed, then just my undies.  If not then pj pants and a tshirt or shorts and a tshirt or just a tshirt.

     
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    EveryEventElegant       Delaware, Ohio

    I gotcha! Well when you do decide to look Call his century 21. You can say you heard of him from his niece Heather lol. They have a huge house in Bethlehem with arches of land that they use to ride their horses! I miss being there so much. It is so much prettier than dingy Ohio even in the winter.

     
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    PirateJenn    June 21, 2011   Denver

    this is such a funny question to me, but then again most people aren't in my position....

    I rock whatever i want, sweats, tank, socks, never really matters....I sleep alone every night! not a newlywed, but still.....my husband works nights.

     
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    AnnieAAA    October 25, 2009   Dallas, TX

    Don't know if any of you gals are into The Flight of the Conchords, but in one of their songs "Business Time" and his girlfriend is laying in the bed and the lyric goes "you wearing that ugly old baggy t-shirt from that team building exercise you did for your old work."

    My husband turned to me and said "thats you!!" Yes, I'm guilty...I wear old baggy t-shrts to bed! LOL!

     
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    owlbride    October 10, 2009   Houston

    @AnnieAAA - LMAO! That's totally me too! Ugly? check. Baggy? check. Free t-shirt from work? check. I even own some cute pjs, but I pretty much always wear the ugly free t-shirts instead :)

     
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    Valhalla    June 26, 2010   Vancouver, British Columbia

    @ AnnieAAA - I laughed out loud at that, I love FOTC. And that is totally me. I wear old t-shirts and pj bottoms, and shorts and tees in the summer. Sexy? Forget it. My comfort is paramount when going to sleep :P

     
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    December    December 12, 2008   Minneapolis,MN/Jackson,MS

    anything that I can nurse in easily without having to wrangle too much clothing in the middle of the night or early morning.

    My husband has gradually converted my pajama habits... I used to be a long shirt, long pants kind of girl. Then I could only wear shorts and a t-shirt... then only the t-shirt... then my belly started getting big and I ditched the t-shirts... then my husband and I actually slept in the bed together all night (no more night shift!!) so I followed his example and wore nothing. Now I kind of have to because otherwise I'll wake up in a puddle of milk. :)

     
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    littlebug    5/30/2010   MA

    Haha am I the only one to wear nothing to bed? Our bedroom is really warm. Between the portable heater that is FI, and the dog, and the comforter, I usually end up stripping in the middle of the night anyways.

     
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    bohemianbailie    January 15, 2011   Huntington Beach, California

    O yeah unless I am away from home I cannot handle anything on me in my sleep!

     
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    mountain.bride    December 12, 2009   Australia

    I can't believe how almost everyone wears something to bed! DH got me out of the pyjama habit very early in our relationship - his words were "why bother when it's just going to come off anyway". It's so nice to curl up naked together every night. Now I'll only wear something (and it's usually undies and a T shirt, or pyjamas if it's cold) if I'm sick, mad at him, or alone. Otherwise it's "fouling up the sheets" as my grandmother puts it, every night! (I'm guessing this will change if we have kids though, I have awkward memories of going in to mum if I was sick or having a nightmare and her having to rummage around for underwear. Ew.)

     
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    Derbybride    December 5, 2009   Louisville KY

    Pre-Pregnancy-- I was all for going commando in bed. But now I find that my breasts need some type of protection or they hurt plus I'm getting up to the bathroom every night so now I'm wearing boy shorts and tees. 

    I can't wait to be commando again tho!

     

     
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    bluespurrs    August 7, 2009   South-central PA, USA, Earth

    Both hubby and I wear nothing to bed. I love the feel of his skin against mine and plus he throws off good heat in the winter!

     
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    EveryEventElegant       Delaware, Ohio

    @bluespurrs- I agree! We do the same!

     
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    Miss Frenchie    December 2009  

    I usually just like to be comfortable, PJ pants and a sweat shirt....we keep our house really cold.

     
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    JoesWifey    May 24, 2009   NYC/Wedding in Indiana

    I guess we sleep nekkid too, just not on a regular basis. It's more of a weekend thing I guess. He always sleeps in just his boxers though.

     
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    Magenta    July 31, 2010   Springfield MA- Wedding in PR

    im not newlywed but this is a funny story and i need to share... when we started living together i used to sleep nude or with undies, then we had our daughter and i need it a bra because i was breastfeeding and it was a mess without bra... when i finished breastfeeding my daughter i went back to sleep on the nude until one day the fire alarm in the apartment we used to live went off and we were going like crazy around the apartment looking something to wear... we evacuated the apartment almost naked with our daughter in our hands in the middle of winter, it was a false alarm and our almost nakedness it was a great show for the firemen and the negihboors, now we sleep with pj, girly pj but pj... :) 

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    "Team building exercise '99!"

    OMG, love "Business time"

    I wear a T-shirt and undies and put on PJ pants if I get cold. I miss the days back when we lived apart and I always wore his clothes to bed. :) I rarely wear his stuff anymore since I have mine around.

     
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    rnc620    June 20, 2009   STL

    @Mageta- lol, that's always been a fear of mine.  Even when I was really really young.  I would think; what if the house burns down and I'm wearing xyz.. 

    When I was in college my neigbors house actually did burn down.  Her brother lived with her and they couldn't find him at first.  Turned out he was hiding because he was naked.  Another neighbor hooked him up with some clothes though.. It shed a little humor on a bad night.

     
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    missrain    January 2, 2010   Austin

    We sleep naked. We do both have pajamas, but they are mostly used for lounging around the house in. :)

     
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    I'm not newly wed, but ever since I've lived on my own I've slept naked and I can't imagine that getting married would change that.  What can I say, I love sleeping naked.

     
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    Champagne Wishes    May 22, 2010   Upstate New York

    I have to match so I usually wear super soft pj pants from Ann Taylor Loft and a white tee from the Mister's collection.   In the summer it's usually just the shirt.

     
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    Farfromachildbride    March, 2010   Boston

    THANK YOU for introducing me to FOTC.  I'm watching Business Time on Youtube right now and DYING from laughing so hard!!!!!  This is HILARIOUS!!!!!

     
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    clarebee    August 21, 2010   Vienna, VA (wedding in Greensboro, GA)

    Not a newlywed but weve lived together for a while....we both wear nothing to bed! Ever since the beginning of our relationship he would say "The first rule of bed club is no clothes allowed" and it has stuck ever since. Its nice to cuddle and be warm! The only time I will wear stuff is if Im on my period or not feeling well. Then Ill usually just wear undies and a t shirt or tank top. Im surprised at how many people wear stuff as well!!

     
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    Kare7213    May 22, 2010   Dewitt, MI

    Lol when i was prego i LIVED in his pjs and t shirts! Now I usually just go to bed in my bra and undies.

     
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    stormy9973    October 3, 2009   Ottawa, KS

    Both of us also wear nothing to bed!  Before we met I kept my house on 65 degrees and was always cold and went to bed with sweats, sweatshirts, and heavy socks, plus 3 or 4 blankets.  When I met DH he slept nude and I went to bed in a t-shirt and undies, but usually ended up taking those off throughout the nite because I got to hot.  He gives out so much heat that now we both sleep naked and I am plenty toasty in the winter time with just a couple of blankets and a quilt. 

     
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    andreaandchinelo    09/04/2009   dc

    sometimes undies...but barely that :) I like to strip down when i go to bed...hubby likes it too Laughing

     

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