- 8 years ago
- Wedding: April 2010
so we married Apr 24 this year and May was wonderful June was wonderful, even had our first weekend vacation, but the first week in July the marriage responsibilities started to show it’s dark ugly face. DH had a pain shooting down his left leg and couldnt shake so we decided to go to chiropractor. Dr. worked on him for 2 appointments and he was doing okay not better just okay. so the next sunday he wakes up and can’t even walk he is in tears it hurts so bad. so we go back to chiro monday(after callin in sick to work) and she wants us to do MRI. DH says no he dont want to put out money i tell him he may not have choice. so a week later we do the MRI(still hasn’t returned to work, but keeps in touch with boss). we find out he has a serious bulge in his L5. Dr. says she can still work on it and try to relieve it but really wants us to talk to neurosurgeon. so hubby calls boss tell him the news and boss says dont worry we keep your job. that was thursday. next monday we go back to chiro and she says looking better but gonna take time and patience. tuesday husbands boss calls and let’s him go they had to hire someone to replace him. so now our income is cut almost in half but we are having to put out so much money because we dont have insurance. he wont be able to draw unemployment because in his condition he cant work he can hardly stand for more than 30 min.
unfortunately i have a very negative husband. i’m trying to deal as best as i can. i found i have more patience than i thought i had but it’s getting really old. i try and tell him there is nothing he or i can do at this moment and it’s in the Lord’s hands but he just says well i just dont understand why it wont quit hurting.