(Closed) night before the wedding

posted 9 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

My FI and I live together too but aren’t spending the last before the wedding together. We don’t live in the city we are getting married in so I’ll be in a hotel room with some of my BMs and he is going to stay in a hotel suite with his family. Then we’ll do the official first look with the photog.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

We live together, but have decided not to spend the night before the wedding together.  It’s not a huge deal to us either way, but the thought of not seeing each other until the ceremony is just too romantic to pass up ๐Ÿ™‚  I totally get why people see each other before/spend the night together before…but I think we’re gonna go traditional with this one ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

WE live together but not spending the night together!  I am hosting a sleepover with my BMs and sister and niece and he’s staying … well I don’t know where he’s staying yet!!  Probably a hotel with other friends!  The girls will be heading to the salon and then to the wedding venue (which is also my grandmothers home) to get ready! 

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

We live together but I’m going to spend the night at my MOH’s. Not because I’m suspicious but because we want that first look to be extra special. He doesn’t want to see me until I walk down the aisle. But I am worried I won’t be able to sleep without him.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

We live together and we are undecided if we will be spending the night together or not. I think, we are and then I will just get up early the next day, kiss him goodbye as my fiance for the last time and be gone for the day! I’m thinking I’ll go ahead and check in to our hotel room so I can get ready.

One of the reasons we might just go ahead and spend the night is because we may have some friends stay with us so it’d be nice to celebrate our last night as an engaged couple with them. I don’t know. Details still need to be ironed out. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

my fiance and I don’t live together right now, but we might. I may move into his parents house until we get our own, but we talked about it last night actually, after a movie. We’re going to spend the whole week apart!

Post # 9
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147 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

we live together but will spend the night apart, i’ll stay at a hotel near the wedding venue, and i won’t see him until we do our first look!

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

We’re spending the night together! 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

We are definitely spending the night together. Neither of us sleeps well without the other and if I get midnight cold feet, I will definitely need him. We are getting dressed separately though – got to keep those wedding night undies a surprise ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 12
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Helper bee

We’ll be spending the night together too. We’ve been together for 10 years, but have lived on different coasts for the last year. We only have another couple of weeks until he goes back to NY and we’d rather spend that time together than apart!

I’m going to get dressed with my mother and sister (BM) at the hotel where we’ll spend the wedding night and then do a first look/photos. It’s all going to be special and romantic even if we spend the night together beforehand. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

We’re geting married where I grew up, which is about two and a half hours away from where we live. We’re staying at my parent’s house, together. Neither of us are big believers in tradition.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

We spent the night together. I don’t think I would have slept well otherwise!

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

We live together already….BUT….are NOT spending the night before together.  He will not see me again until I am coming down the aisle.  We set up pics and all afterwards at his request.  We are both so modern, yet he is very traditional about this one. 

Post # 16
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468 posts
Helper bee

While my FI and I aren’t currently living together, we probably will be by the time the wedding roles around. We’re are going to go the traditional route with this one. I will probably spend the night at my parents house, with my sisters, who are my bridesmaids, and he will be at his parents house or our townhouse. We plan on getting ready separately and then the 1st time we will see each other will be when I walk down the aisle. I’m very excited about this! 

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