- 2 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
We’re down to six weeks and I keep having major recurring nightmares about getting cold feet, not me but my FI. When it was just the occassional thought it was fine, but it’s gotten to the point where I have major nightmares many times a week and wall around most days with a knot in my chest, like a panic attack that won’t end. I am trying very hard to keep these fears from my FI because I’m afraid that it would become a self-fulfilling prophacy. My FI just laughs it off saying that there’s no way that would ever happen (at one point he even seriously suggested that we just go and get married at the courthouse now), but this panic is killing me. I don’t know what to do because I know that my fears are groundless but I can’t get them to stop.
Are there any bees that have had this happen? How did you deal with it?