No adult bridesmaids or groomsmen

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
42157 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@nataliemaude:  I’m not sure what you are asking. Your children will be your attendants. Friends and family will be guests.

Depending on where you live, you will likely need two adults to sign as witnesses. You can choose anyone you want.

Post # 4
61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

To be honest, I think that’s odd given they are just kids, but hey- it’s your wedding and I say do what makes you happy! 

Post # 5
3735 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@nataliemaude:  Plenty of people get married without BMs and GMs. Your guests and family will feel special due to your invite and thoughtful hosting of them. THAT’s how you make them feel special!

Post # 6
4483 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I am having the girl I watch (I’m a childcare provider) as one of my maids. She will turn 11 just before the wedding. I understand your dilemma, since, as much as I want to include her, she’ll likely be bored or out of place at most wedding things. You and your daughter can probably bond over dress shopping and pre-wedding pampering like a mani pedi, and maybe your son would like to dress like his dad and do something special with him.

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