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My FI has absolutley no sense of personal boundries. I know I should feel glad that he is "comfortable" enough around me that he will spread his cheeks to pass gas or that he has no problem skipping deodorant.

But tonight (TMI is coming up, turn away now if you want), he went into the bathroom and turned the fan on. About 3o seconds later he walks back out. I know something is up because somtime I wonder if he has suffocated, he has been in there so long. So out he walks holding onto the wast of his pants to ask me where the Menards ad went!

oh wow. Mr. HW likes to say "oops" after each time he passes gas even though it was clearly no accident. I just think it's funny now. But he definitely hasn't gone that far with the bathroom.

So how do you feel about it? bothers you or just makes you laugh and shake your head?

I REALLY dislike the gas issue. I understand sometimes you can't help it, but I think it is kind of rude. Sometimes I wish he would go back to the days when he thought he had to impress me and hid those kind of things. He just laughs it off.

How do get him to really listen to what I am saying?

I agree with GirlWithaRing. Maybe bring it up when he's not being gross and just mention that it would make you really happy if he'd step out of the room and that it bothers you. And then maybe follow it up with, is there anything I can do along that vein so that I don't annoy you? So then it seems mutually beneficial.

Thanks bees. It's not a huge deal or anything, somtimes you just can't help it. I think it annoys me more that he knows I dislike it and still does.