Post # 1
My FI and I have decided we will probably skip the boutonnieres for him and the groomsmen, we think having a boutonniere and a pocket square together will look too busy.
Would it be weird to still get boutonnieres for our dads/grandfather if my FI and his groomsmen don’t have them?
Post # 3
Huh… Well if you aren’t giving any to the groomsmen I would skip grandfathers. Make it simple and keep it to immediate family. I personally would feel guilty not giving them to groomsmen but giving them to grandpa. But sometimes guys don’t even notice or care about that stuff!
Post # 4
@pinotgrigio: maybe give an embroidered hankercheif because its polite to give something..