- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
I am heated! My FI and I just practice our first dance and he just told me it’s not him and he doesn’t want to do one at all. WTF I do dance and it is me so how is that fair. I taught him he has the steps but doesn’t want add any sway or personal touch to it. More and more I am feeling like canceling the wedding. It seems I am the only one actually doing ANY work for it. He even told me let’s just use the standard vows WTF. Ummm no. It’s making me feel like what’s the point if you don’t want to make this special let’s just cancel it all and go to the court house. He’s been there done that & divorced! So it just seems tacky to be to repeat that. He has joked 100 times about just going to the court house now I feel like we just should have because everthing that I have pictured and spent hours planning he isn’t into. More in more I feel like it’s just wrong obviously we have other had other bigger issues but it’s the small things that are making me feel like we should just cancel the deposits and do a tiny wedding.