- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
So, I’m a Bridesmaid or Best Man for a close girlfriend of mine in her wedding this Saturday. She’s attending mine in 3 weeks. Am I totally weird to think that we should maybe skip gifting eachother? I mean, Fiance and I give cash, and I know they do for weddings, so won’t we just be trading $100 or so?
We’re very close, and open about eachother’s lives- they’re broke from the wedding and house-buying, and we’re about to be the same. They didn’t register, so she’s certainly not expecting gifts in that way, but we all know it’s customary. So it just seems silly for us to write them a check, just for them to turn around and write us a check, right?